Happy Birthday America!
I was thinking about how I celebrated Independence Day through the decades. I remember the celebration being the kickoff to summer vacations — sneaking an extra day. Parades were always part of the day. Barbecues immediately come to mind. And, of course, the fireworks stand out.
Until lately, barbecues were always a staple for the July 4 celebration. Growing up, the folks would fight with the charcoal for what was sometimes the only cookout of the year. After Karen and I got married, we mixed hosting barbecues with visiting at friends’ barbecues. I remember kids running around with sparklers until dusk closed in and we headed for various firework displays.
My first recollection of July 4 fireworks were as a tyke in Paterson NJ. My cousins and I — along with their families — walked to three or four blocks up the Madison Avenue overpass to watch the pyrotechnics light up the sky. When we moved to Totowa, NJ, the day started with the parade, which was staged a few blocks away. And we could sit in the back yard and still get a sky view of the fireworks.
The traditions waned after I entered the workforce, got married and started a family. Early in my career, I was usually inside the office instead of witnessing the bursts above. In Ogdensburg, NJ, we watched the parade from our back yard, and would travel to neighboring Sparta, NJ, for fireworks.
In Belvidere, IL, the tradition was revived with a morning at the downtown parade, good eats during the day and heading to neighboring Cherry Valley, IL, to stake out our spot, usually with neighbors, friends and soon-to-be-friends, as we watched the kids run around with reckless abandon until the first crack and flash in the sky. I do remember one year it was hot, humid and overcast, but the crowds gathered in and around Cherry Valley, only to be prematurely displaced by the howl of the tornado sirens. Nature put on quite a display that July 4 night!
In Ohio, we often ventured over toward Maumee Bay to watch the fireworks. Karen and I aren’t particularly fond of crowds so we often found a place somewhere along the river bank to watch the display.
We always intended to go the The Mall in Washington, DC, but we always came up with an excuse and generally watched the fun on television … comfy in our pjs and the ac.
By the time we reached upstate New York, the allure of July 4 fireworks dulled. Barbecues were a must and occasionally we would take in a parade. There were not a lot of firework options — they were reserved for other events in most towns — but one summer July evening we drove to the Seneca Lake shoreline in Lodi to watch a parade of boats and probably not-so-legal pyrotechnic show.
I happened to be in Dexter, ME, one July 4 weekend and got my holiday firework fix there overlooking Lake Wassookeag. I’ve returned a couple of times, usually capping off the night with a frosty ice cream cone. The fireworks were last night, so I missed this year, and I doubt I’ll trek to Bangor or Greenville.
It’s not a big deal for me. After all these years, the pop, flashes and displays tend to be routine. Seen one. Seen them all. The excitement has aged as I have.
However, with that being said, there are two places that really captured my attention. I was at a music/food festival in the Minneapolis/St. Paul, MN, area. I was there more for the food, but stayed late enough to watch the fireworks, which was the first time I witnessed synchronized pyrotechnics with Dan Fogelberg on stage.
The second firework display that garners excitement for me is in Seaside Heights, NJ. It’s called First Night Ocean County and it takes place around 5 p.m. Dec. 31. The hook is the explosives are lit on the beach and explode over the Atlantic Ocean. It’s an entirely different experience. I’ve been to three in the last five years — well, actually two. Two years ago it was bitterly cold and the event was postponed and my plans couldn’t be extended.
I hope you all have a safe July 4th, celebrating our heritage as a nation. Enjoy your parades, your barbecues and your fireworks.
THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: The greatest impact of your life comes at the time of your greatest pain.
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It was a Heaven Shining Through morning — the sun partially hidden behind clouds but still bright enough to illuminate the sky. It seemed appropriate for today as I formally launch my new book, My Name Is Sam … and Heaven Is Still Shining Through. The presentation takes place at 6 p.m. (Eastern) at the Thompson Free Library, Dover-Foxcroft, ME, and it will be {hopefully} broadcast live through the wonders of Facebook.
The premise of the book — a fictional memoir with a Christian flavor — is an over coffee chat with Samantha. As she states herself, “I did have a good life. An ordinary life, yes, but good. No ‘ah hah!’ moment, just a string of ‘ahs’ weaving a tale of life, love, loss, some sorrow, but oh so much joy!”
Honestly, neither the novella nor the book were intended to be “Christian” works, but a read anyone in any spiritual stage could enjoy without an overt, hit you over the head Christian message. I intentionally did not want to preach to the choir. I was and am hoping someone in need sees the story of reconciliation and self-awareness amid the sometimes messiness of life.
George Bernard Shaw once got a letter addressed to George Bernard Shawm.
She looked at me blankly and asked, “What’s that?”
In addition, Peace be with you is also a deeply personal invitation Jesus offers to His disciples. He extends peace to His disciples who abandoned and betrayed Him. He comes to them not to haunt them as a ghost or seek revenge with His cosmic power. Instead, Jesus stands amongst those whom He loved deeply, those He had been hurt by, and releases them to a new way to be with Him — one of restoration and forgiveness.
Prayers appreciated for Bonnie. Surgery is the next step on her cancer journey. Praying for complete and permanent healing and a full recovery in 6-8 weeks.
We come to You, Lord, because prayer is the least yet the greatest thing we can do for each other. When two or more are gathered in
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I encourage you to visit, join in and comment. And, as I’ve been doing, here’s Heather’s take on the value of the exercise, taken from snippets found in Five Minute Friday: A Collection of Stories Written in Five Minutes Flat as an added inducement to join in.
By the way, Kate just published
Getting What You Pay For
The purpose of the Journal is to get writers to focus, spark inspiration, provide space for you to practice your craft, and challenge you to cultivate the habit of writing regularly. Let go of your inhibiting fears and gain new confidence page by page as you practice these freewriting exercises. No overthinking, no worrying about spelling mistakes, grammatical errors, or what anyone else will think — just write. If the timer beeps and you want to keep going, great! If you stop after five minutes, great! The goal is not to get it just right, but to just write.