Thanksgiving Smiles

One of the misconceptions about being a Christian is non-Christians think we don’t know how to have fun or have a sense of humor. Trust me, if the Big Guy can have a sense of humor when it comes to dealing with us mere mortals, so can we.

The difference for Christians is we don’t have to debase ourselves or others to generate a smile. Laughter at life or ourselves is a gift from God.

Here’s this week’s special edition of Midweek Mirth, tailored to the Turkey Day season   … so let’s smile a little!

An Ode to Thanksgiving

May your stuffing be tasty.

May your turkey be plump,

May your potatoes and gravy

Have nary a lump.

May your yams be delicious

And your pies take the prize,

And may your Thanksgiving dinner

Stay off your thighs!

… and now for a bonus Thanksgiving thought …

How to Observe Thanksgiving

Count your blessings instead of your crosses.

Count your gains instead of your losses.

Count your joys instead of your woes.

Count your friends instead of your foes.

Count your smiles instead of your tears.

Count your courage instead of your fears.

Count your full years instead of your lean.

Count your kind deeds instead of your mean.

Count your health instead of your wealth.

Count on God instead of yourself.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough. — Oprah Winfrey

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Preface, Introduction or Foreword

I was recently asked what a Preface was and whether it was the same as an Introduction or Foreword.

The answer to the latter part of the question is a resounding No! The three, while preceding your manuscript, serve different functions.

The Preface is written by you, the author as a way to provide a short introductory narrative about the “why” of the book. What was the impetus and/or impulse that led to the upcoming novel. It is a peek inward, giving readers a glimpse of your motives for telling this particular story. Ironically, it is usually written after your final draft. It is also generally separated from body of the manuscript.

An Introduction is also written by you, the author. It’s function is to introduce the book, set it up, share information that might be hidden in your story. It’s usually background that is helpful for the reader but not necessarily part of the story. It becomes the first chapter in your book, not as an official chapter. It flows naturally into the main story.

A Foreword is written by someone other than the author. It’s purpose is to give credibility to the work and the author. Usually, a Foreword is reserved for more technical non-fiction work. Look at it as a qualifier. It is separate from the story.

None of them are absolute necessities. They are props to enhance your work.

Technically, I’ve never used any of them in my writing except for the latest, Yes, There Is a Santa … and I’ve Met Him Personally Many Times. There I employed the Introduction technique, more to explain why I was writing this book. It initially was written for grandchildren and great-grandchildren and I felt that a wider audience would need that background.

It was short and sweet.

“I’ve heard there are some people who don’t believe in Santa Claus!

That’s just silly. I can tell you from personal experience, there IS a Santa Claus. I not only believe it but I’ve actually met the jolly old elf not once, not twice, but many, many times. He is as real as – well – me!

So, I thought I would share some of my interactions with Santa so you can believe too!”

Although I didn’t identify it as an Introduction, there was a Prelude to My Name Is Sam … and Heaven Is Still Shining Through. It was written as a personal letter from Sam.

“The morning sky is dark with rolling clouds as I sit on a boardwalk bench in Seaside Heights, NJ, just reflecting about how blessed my life has been … So, today I lean back and continue to breathe in the salt water-tinged air and feel the sun on my face, constantly reminded of God’s presence in the ordinary as He allows heaven to shine through.

     Love

          Sam”

I felt the letter was the bridge connecting the novella Heaven Shining Through with the spinoff, but I didn’t want to call it an Introduction. I wanted something more personal.

I hope that helps. As always, I emphasize the rules of writing are more suggestions for writing.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: No matter how hard you get knocked down, get back up again. Eventually, you won’t get knocked down. — Elizabeth Holmes       

 

 

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Thanksgiving

Our timely Words for the Week are from Charles R. Swindoll in his book, Growing Strong in the Seasons of Life.

I recall, as a little barefoot boy with a cowlick of snow-white hair on my forehead, standing erect in my classroom and repeating the Pledge of Allegiance one Thanksgiving season. Our nation was at war and times were hard. My teacher had lost her husband on the blood washed shores of Normandy. As we later bowed our heads for prayer she wept aloud. I did too. All the class joined in. She stumbled through one of the most moving expressions of gratitude and praise that ever emerged from a soul plunged in pain.

At that time in my young life, I fell strangely in love with Thanksgiving. Lost in sympathy and a boy’s pity for his teacher, I walked home very slowly that afternoon. Although only a child, I had profound feelings of gratitude for my country … my friends … my school … my church … my family. I swore before God that I would fight to the end to keep this land free from foes who would want to take away America’s distinctives and the joys of living in this good land. I have never forgotten my childhood promise. I never shall.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Work hard. Every day is a new opportunity to be better. — Misty Copeland

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An Open, Generous Heart

Be generous and willing to share. — 1 Timothy 6:18

After Vicki’s old car broke down with no option for repair, she started scraping together money for another vehicle.

Chris, a frequent customer of the restaurant where Vicki works at the drive-thru window, one day heard her mention she needed a car. “I couldn’t stop thinking about it,” Chris said. “I [had] to do something.” So he bought his son’s used car (his son had just put it up for sale), shined it up, and handed Vicki the keys.

Vicki was shocked. “Who . . . does that?” she said in amazement and gratitude.

The Scriptures call us to live with open hands, giving freely as we can — providing what’s truly best for those in need. As Paul says, Command [those who are rich] to do good, to be rich in good deeds (1 Timothy 6:18). We don’t merely perform a benevolent act here or there, but rather live out a cheerful spirit of giving. Big-heartedness is our normal way of life. “Be generous and willing to share,” we’re told (verse 18).

As we live with an open, generous heart, we don’t need to fear running out of what we need. Rather, the Bible tells us that in our compassionate generosity, we’re taking “hold of [true] life” (v. 19). With God, genuine living means loosening our grip on what we have and giving to others freely.

Today’s reflection was written by Winn Collier, pastor at All Souls Church, Charlottesville, VA, and was included in Our Daily Bread. He lives in Charlottesville with his wife, Miska, and their two sons. Winn likes friendship, fair-trade coffee, smart movies, books worth reading, mountains, questions, and walking in the woods. Winn dislikes pretense, fear, injustice — and that he doesn’t live anywhere near a Planet Smoothie. He writes for magazines and is the author of four books: Restless Faith: Hanging on to a God Just Out of Reach; Let God: The Transforming Wisdom of François Fénelon; Holy Curiosity: Encountering Jesus’ Provocative Questions; and his recent fiction, Love Big, Be Well: Letters to a Small-Town Church. Our Daily Bread provides daily encouragement on a variety of social media including online, by e-ail, and on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and YouTube.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Be a peacemaker.

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In the Name of Jesus …

As we build this community prayer platform, we ask the Lord to listen to our petitions with full confidence they not only are heard but acted upon by God according to His holy will. These requests are on my prayer list and I hope you consider putting them on yours as you place your petitions before the Lord Sunday.

Approach the throne room and respond with faith and not fear, knowing the promises of God and His mighty hand will hold us through any situation! Sometimes, all it takes is just one prayer to change everything. Something extraordinary happens when two or more agree together in prayer.

What is one of the most important things we should do as Christians? Praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication. To that end, keep alert with all perseverance, making supplication for all the saints (Ephesians 6:18).

And, so, Lord, we come to You with our petitions, knowing and expecting Your will to be done.

Thoughts and prayers to all worldwide suffering from the consequences of coronavirus flu – and all other strains. Many – many – of the prayer requests are covid-19 related … people diagnosed … people sick … people dying … relatives worried and isolated. We are in this together – in prayer!

Please keep the victims of household abuse in your prayers. Whether it be physical, emotional, sexual or neglect, this time in particular is very horrifying for them to be trapped in a house with their abuser(s) and not being able to escape.

We also need to pray for colorblind peace. Racism will remain a plague until we stop looking at people as black and white, but as human beings created by the same Creator. We pray for new eyes, calmer heads, and softer hearts. 

Special prayer requests have been made for orphanages in Kenya, Pakistan, Bangladesh, and right here in the United States. The need is real.

Financial issues were also high on the prayer lists with millions still out of work. Sustain those who are hurting financially. Give us and them our daily bread.

Natural disasters continue. Keep those in the path of fires and storms safe and focused on You, Lord.

Keep Andrew in your prayers as he continues to fight the fight. He continues to physically fail, so prayers would be appreciated.

Prayers for Rosie who is battling cancer at age 80.

Please pray for Bucky who is battling shingles at age 76.

Prayers requested for Doris who is battling a torn bicep and is scheduled for rotator cuff surgery.

Please pray for Lynn and Ansel and their family as they go through some difficult health challenges and decisions.

Please pray for Emily who has bone cancer and other complications.

Please pray for Jennifer who is in need of healing.

Stacey is seeking prayer for a struggle she is going through.

Robert is seeking prayer for himself and his family. The Lord will know the details.

Please pray for Mary who is in hospital with serious pneumonia and lung issues.

Please pray for Deb’s family. They are in an extremely complicated and urgent health crisis with multiple people involved.

Please pray for Tami who has multiple serious medical issues.

Please pray for Nate as he struggles with illness.

Please pray for Greg who is suffering from Alzheimer’s.

Please pray for Marcia who is struggling with illness, and for the implications to all involved.

Please pray for Lynn who is overwhelmed caring for a husband with Alzheimer’s and a son with an illness.

Please pray for Diane who is struggling with health.

Please pray for Jennifer who has insomnia.

Please pray for Gary who was diagnosed with stage four cancer.

Please pray for Deb who is in the middle of a cancer battle.

Please pray for Chris who is struggling emotionally and spiritually. He has had lots of loss and needs the Lord’s touch.

Please pray for Debbie and her family members who are suffering from illness and some serious, life-threatening situations. The whole family needs extensive prayer.

Please pray for Verniece who is in her 90s and in the middle of a health challenge.        

Please pray for health and restoration for Maryana and her family.

Please pray for Roy who has survived a heart attack and cancer but is now struggling with kidneys that are reportedly failing.

Please pray for Valerie who is having digestive issues.

Please pray for Phillip. After having a massive heart attack and two strokes few weeks ago he still is not improving or able to respond to commands.

Please send a prayer for Patrick who had an adverse reaction to electro therapy and severe side effects from Milk of Magnesia.

Please keep Rob in your prayers. He has a tumor in his esophagus.

Prayers requested for Joy who has been diagnosed with terminal cancer.

Prayers asked for Carolyn who is recovering from surgery.

Samantha has stage 4 kidney disease, and can use prayer.

Amber has tumors in her brain and requests prayers.

Alden has infections and cellulitis. He could use some prayers.

Asking for prayers for David. He has been hospitalized for vertigo, however he has a history of heart issues. He cannot stand or walk because he vomits if he does. The doctors do not know what of wrong with him.

Prayers requested for Brendan who is suffering from psychosis and needs to be admitted to a secure mental health facility.

Dave has early stage prostate cancer and could use some prayer

Amanda, 29, has been feeling very sick lately and doctors don’t know what is wrong. She has some specialty appointments coming up and could use some prayer.

Please pray for Lorraine who is battling hearing loss, memory issues, bad posture, body pain, and blood pressure issues.

Please pray for Steven who has cerebral palsey in his left leg. He quit his job because it was too strenuous for him and he is in severe pain. Now he is also suffering from depression. Meds have not kicked in yet.

Please pray for Jeanna. She has stage 4 cancer and is in so much pain all the time. She is very weak, but her faith is strong. She has a two year old daughter who doesn’t understand what is happening to her mommy.

Please pray for Kristen who just found out she has pancreatic cancer.

Please pray today for Adan. He is married with two young kids and has a large cancerous lump in his throat. They are operating Monday to remove it.

There were a host of unspoken prayer requests and we heard of a number of deaths this week. Prayers for their families as they go through this earthly trial. We grieve … heaven rejoices.

We come to You, Lord, because prayer is the least yet the greatest thing we can do for each other. When two or more are gathered in Your name, we confidently know You are with us. What better company can we have? You reign and we trust You! We may be broken and battered but know You heal and quiet the soul. You are the source for all that happens in our lives. We thank You for the progress being made. We thank You for the many blessings we have received this week. Some we unfortunately didn’t notice. Nonetheless, those blessings are ever-present in our lives. We thank You for healing. We thank You for slowing us down. We thank You for providing us our daily needs — no more and no less. We thank You for being with us, listening to us, walking with us on this journey. We thank You for the support of our family and friends … for seeing the extraordinary in the ordinary — sunrises, sunsets, flowers, kids laughing, adventures, good news amid the bad news. We know we can come to You with our concerns and they will be heard. Through Christ all things are possible. We lift up those family members and friends who are battling various physical, emotional, financial, career or spiritual issues and ask not for Your guidance and healing (although that would be welcomed) but to keep reminding us we are not alone in our battles. Specifically we lift up Andrew, Rosie, Bucky, Doris, Lynn and Ansel, Emily, Jennifer, Stacey, Robert, Mary, Deb’s family, Tami, Nate, Greg, Marcia, Lynn, Diane, Jennifer, Gary, Deb, Chris, Debbie’s family, Verniece, Maryana, Roy, Valerie, Phillip, Patrick, Rob, Joy, Carolyn, Samantha, Amber, Alden, David, Brendan, Dave, Amanda, Lorraine, Steven, Jeanna, Kristen, Adan, and all those needing Your healing and guiding touch. We pray for the families of all those You have called home. We grieve … You celebrate. We pray for obedience to Your Will so Your “Son” Light shines through us through the power of the Spirit. And we come to You through the confidence of the words taught by Your Son Jesus. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Keep your joys and concerns coming. They have been and will be included during my prayer time and I trust they will be on your lips as well as you approach the altar. All it takes is a couple of keystrokes under the “Contact Me” button on the top bar {or to the right if you’re not a follower yet}. I hope it becomes your best friend as you navigate around the site so we can all be viable prayer warriors. You can also comment or reach me at wisdomfromafather@gmail.com.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: There is variation in our prayer because we look toward God from different vantage points. Our situation changes; we develop and are subjected to a range of external factors. Our situation can also change because we deliberately choose to seek further into the mystery of God. — Michael Casey

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Five Minute Friday — Grief

Here’s this week’s installment of Five Minute Friday. You might remember the task is to write for five minutes on a specific prompt word, post it,  share it with others at fiveminutefriday.com, read the remarkable stories from other writers in the group, and encourage them.

As an extra enticement, I’ve been using testimonials about the group and the exercise from other members as collected in Five Minute Friday: A Collection of Stories Written in Five Flat, compiled by Susan Shipe. This week’s it’s short and sweet from Marianne. I encourage you to listen to the words and visit Kate and her wonderful corps of writers beginning in the Community section … and maybe be inspired to join in!

“Five Minute Fridays give the freedom to write, unedited, which allowed me to feel, uninhibited.”

The timer is set … so here goes. {clock starts now}

There is a Funky Winkerbean cartoon I saved and often looked at. It was taped to the file cabinet in my office. I prominently affixed it to the cabinet  after first seeing in shortly after Karen died. It’s long gone but I remember it, word for word, frame for frame. Les Moore {one of the main characters in the story} lost his wife to cancer and he is driving with his daughter Summer. She asks, “Dad … Do you still miss Mom?”

Next frame, Les responds, “There hasn’t been a day. But after a while, you begin to understand …” Jump to frame three. “… That you can’t let your grief become the substitute for the one you love.”

That was my emotional state following the death of Karen a dozen years ago (Happy Birthday Sweetheart, by the way). That’s why that little cartoon meant so much to me.

Grief. We’ve all experienced it or we will experience it. It is as much a part of life as being born and dying. It’s a question of how we deal with it, whether  we let the grief overpower us or empower us.

There were some pretty dark days following Karen’s death. But when I allowed the memories to push forward and take over center stage in my mind, I was able … STOP

to sort through them and recognize, although a part of my heart died with my wife, I was still here with responsibilities to family, friends, and my customers.

I’m not going to sugar coat it. I didn’t want to feel better. I was quite content wallowing in self pity. But I  had to feel better. I had to forge forward, not get stuck in the rut of the past.

One way I dealt with the grief was getting involved with others who had gone through similar experiences {a support group}. Another was reaching out to friends who also lost loved ones, not telling them how to grieve, but walking with them as they grieved. I could understand the irrationality of some of their actions because I lived similar irrational thoughts and actions. I cried with and walked with and listened to at last four close friends suddenly faced with loss. I don’t know if I helped, but I intentionally was there for them — beyond the platitudes, beyond the encouraging words — on  regular basis. I  spent many hours on the phone with them or visiting with them to just let them vent, to assure them their irrational thoughts and actions were normal, to walk with them through the valley of tears and loss, to assure them they had a purpose — a new purpose perhaps — to go on.

I was able to pay it forward because I had such an angel in my life, Sonni. She refocused me. She lectured me when needed. She refused to let me walk through this new season of life alone. She decided, as a seasoned widow, she was going to take me under her wing to try and help me avoid the traps of widowhood. She was the salve that helped heal a broken heart — not repair it, not fill it, not replace it. She paid it forward.

I still have my days — sometimes weeks or months — when I feel the grief swelling in my heart and soul. You never know when it is going to hit, what triggers those feelings. But I reach back and replay her counsel. I refocus on me. I look around at all the beauty in the world, from the ragweed to the roses, from sunrise to sunset, from the order of nature to the chaos in nature. I celebrate my family and friends.

God sends people into our lives. I know He did for me. And I hope I can be that person for others.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Life’s too short to be shoehorned into a box that isn’t for you. — Lauren Mayberry

 

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Another Birthday

I know there is no time in eternity, but I  have to say, you haven’t aged a day, Sweetheart. You’re even more beautiful today than ever.

Tomorrow is actually you’re birthday, but I couldn’t resist making my usual remark — you caught up to me again!

I was having a hard time figuring out how I would recognize this milestone date. Over the past years, I’ve included some flowery verses, some whimsical sayings and simple I Love Yous. I could do that again this year, but what kept nagging me is whether they actually celebrate birthdays in heaven.

Let’s face it, down here we recognize milestones because we’re constrained by time and space. I’m not sure that’s the case in heaven. Eternity is a milestone. I mean, without the constraints of time and space, how do they measure milestones? I’m sure there is some way and I can envision the choir breaking out in a chorus of Happy Birthday for you and all those born on this earth-constrained day. I just don’t how that happens.

Down here, we do recognize the day you were born and started your journey through life and into my life and the lives of all your touched. And it’s noteworthy, because you were noteworthy.

I was privileged you were given to me as a special gift. I watched you grow from an 18 year old self-doubting girl into a formidable, forceful woman through 40 years of marriage, and leaving a legacy for those of us left behind — a legacy of love. Speaking just for myself, you were my complement. You made me whole. And you are missed.

You had an incredible passion for life, although your early experiences growing up often quelled that fire. You were realistic … I was and still am the dreamer. You saw the glass half empty … I saw it half full. You were prone to worry … I was and still am aloof.

It was precisely this disparity, I think, that made our marriage work. Very few times in our 40 years together were we both approaching life’s situations the same way … or as you would fondly say, “right brain … left brain.” It was your realism that tempered my dreams, just as much as it was my aloofness that quieted — I hope — your fears. We never really decided whether the glass was half full or half empty. Instead we both became grateful we had a glass at all.

Birthdays were never really “special” for us, especially as we meandered into emptying the nest. Baubles and beads were replaced with twosome events — concerts, movies, dinner, weekend trips, and even some football games tossed in. I can’t remember the last time either one of us blew out the candles on a cake. And that’s okay. It was — and still is — a time for the two of us.

I wish I could tell you a hundred times {okay, maybe not a hundred, but a lot} how much I love and loved you. Love, like in respect and appreciation and unfailing. I still do that even though our conversations are one-sided and through a bronze veil.

I wish things were different. I wish you were still here with me physically. I miss teasing you and being teased by you. I miss your smile and even your occasional grumpiness — especially in the dawn’s early light. I miss our time together, exploring new adventures together. But, it’s not. Life has a way of changing expectations.

We had a great ride. That’s why I can still say:

With all my love, Happy, Happy Birthday … For all our yesterdays … Today … and throughout Eternity.

I LOVE YOU!

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Love is powerful and covers all. 

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Midweek Mirth

One of the misconceptions about being a Christian is non-Christians think we don’t know how to have fun or have a sense of humor. Trust me, if the Big Guy can have a sense of humor when it comes to dealing with us mere mortals, so can we.

The difference for Christians is we don’t have to debase ourselves or others to generate a smile. Laughter at life or ourselves is a gift from God.

Here’s this week’s edition of Midweek Mirth  … so let’s smile a little!

Sad But True

A little before Thanksgiving, a teacher asked the children in her class about the upcoming holiday. She thought it might be effective to inch toward its meaning by having them playfully correct some wrong statements.

“Now let me think,” she began. “Thanksgiving. That’s the day when we think about all the stuff we have. And how we want more things than anybody else has. And how we don’t care about anybody but ourselves. And …”

“No!” the preschool kids were starting to chorus! “No-o-o!”

Then one little guy looked up and said, “That’s not Thanksgiving. That’s Christmas!”

 … and now for the bonus …

From Personal Experience …

The five-second rule for food dropped on the floor doesn’t work if you have a two-second dog.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Even the gods love jokes. — Plato

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For the Kids

I’ve been blessed. My five children have blessed me with 18 grandchildren, who in turn have blessed me with four great-granddaughters. That’s a lot of little ones floating around. Keeping track of them all is, well, challenging.

Most of the grandkids felt at one time or another that I was Santa. My jolly belly and snow white hair and beard coupled with a hearty laugh tipped them in that direction. I always vehemently denied the alter ego.

Last year, while embarked on my five-state tour to visit as many of the kids, grandkids, and great-grandkids as I could squeeze in {missed a few who live in other states further west}, I had an idea. It germinated during the hours on the road from Maine to Massachusetts to New York to Ohio to Kentucky to South Carolina. During my stops and access to the computer, the ideas were transferred into words as I crafted a special story for them and read it to them next to roaring fireplace. While I was in South Carolina, I read the original Christmas Eve fireside story to them as my Christmas gift.

The crux of the story was simple … I was not Santa Claus, but I did encounter him many times throughout my life. This turned into a first person account of those interactions.

BELIEVE

It was fun writing the story. The younger ones were fascinated by the fables. One of my older ones suggested writing it for a broader audience. And so, with the confinement of covid, I whittled the tale, polished it here and there, and Yes, There Is a Santa … and I’ve Met Him Personally Many Times was born. I submitted it to my publisher, Rebecca Benston of Higher Ground Books & Media. She took over with final editing, finding the right illustrator — Jasmine Ogletree — creating the cover, and doing the grunt work to publish. The book is now available in both a paperback and e-book format. Links are through the HGBM Store, or Amazon,  or Kindle. I have ordered my copies and signed copies will be available by contacting me directly.

I do have to add, writing a children’s book — for me — was difficult. I came away from the experience with a new-found appreciation for writers in the genre. I did a lot of reading trying to determine what words to use to keep the younger ones engaged while still try to deliver a message. My journey included reducing the page count by about 40% and rediscovering simple words. My hat goes off to those who specialize in children’s writing.

Higher Ground has a few children’s specialists — Mya C. Benston, Rebecca Benston, Yasmin S. Brown, Chuck David, Gabriella Granovitz, Charlotte Hopkins, Amy Land, Will O’Toole, and Linda Phillipson. My Five Minute Friday writing group also features some classy children’s writers — Renee Joiner, Debra Manning-Holloman, Trillia Newbell, and Sandra Kovacs Stein among others. Check them out.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: There is nothing wrong with being wrong.

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Dog Nap

I thought I would share this oldie but goodie as today’s Words for the Week.

An older, tired-looking dog wandered into a woman’s yard. She could tell from his collar and well-fed belly he had a home and was well taken care of.

He calmly came over to her and she gave him a few pats on his head. He then followed her into the house, slowly walked down the hall, curled up in the corner and fell asleep.

An hour later, he went to the door, and she let him out.

The next day he was back, greeted her in the yard, walked inside, resumed his spot in the hall and again slept for about an hour.

This continued off and on for several weeks. Curious, the woman pinned a note to his collar: “I would like to find out who the owner of this wonderful sweet dog is and ask if you are aware, almost every afternoon your dog comes to my house for a nap.”

The next day he arrived for his nap, with a different note pinned to his collar: “He lives in a home with six children — two under the age of three. He’s trying to catch up on his sleep. Can I come with him tomorrow?”

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: It’s fine to celebrate success, but it’s more important to heed the lessons of failure. — Bill Gates

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