Play Ball!

I have to make a quick disclaimer. Baseball is not my favorite sport. Football is.

Now that that’s out of the way, do you know what today is? Opening day for Major League Baseball!

There is something special about opening day. Everybody is at 0-0. Everyone is a contender in their respective divisions. Each team can legitimately make October plans. At least for today.

At this time of year, my mind always wanders back to the 1950s movie Kill the Umpire starring William Bendix. It’s definitely my favorite baseball movie.

Haven’t ever heard about it?

Well, Bendix plays Bill Johnson, a former baseball player who hates umpires. His fanatical devotion to the game has cost him several jobs. And matters are complicated by the fact his father-in-law is a retired umpire. Since he has a hard time staying employed during the baseball season, his father-in-law forces him to matriculate in an umpire school. While he initially tries to get himself expelled, he ultimately comes to enjoy his new job. He becomes an ump in the minor leagues, where blurred vision, caused by using the wrong eyedrops, causes him to see everything twice, earning him a nickname as “Two-Call” Johnson. When he calls a popular player out at home plate, the crowd accuses him of dishonesty, leading to a near-riot during which the involved player is knocked out cold. Johnson must disguise himself as a woman and engage in several subterfuges to get to an important game on time, but his reputation is restored when the player he had originally called against publicly praises him for his honesty as an umpire. The crowd accepts this, although quickly reversing its opinion again after Johnson inevitably, makes another call they do not like. It’s one madcap adventure after another with such comedic heavyweights like Bendix, Ray Collins and William Frawley.

I don’t get to see it too often. It’s not on Netflix or Amazon Prime. A Roku search comes up empty. There is a version online at youtube, and a dvd is available at Amazon.

Baseball is a great summer diversion. When you hear about the season starting, you know the long days of winter are fading fast — and that’s coming from someone who appreciates the cold and white stuff.

When I was young, I couldn’t wait for the season. I was in awe of Mickey Mantle, Willie Mays, Juan Marichal, Sandy Koufax, et al in the late 50s-early 60s. I was heartbroken when the Dodgers and Giants migrated west, although I can say I did get to see some games at Ebbets Field and the Polo Grounds. I was initially a Giants fan back then, but joined the Yankee bandwagon when the team moved. I remember rushing home to watch the final game of the 1960 World Series. I missed most of the game, but got home just in time to watch the Yankees squander a 7-4 lead in the eighth inning and score two in the top of the ninth to tie the score at 9-9, only to watch Bill Mazeroski — not known as a power hitter — sail a Ralph Terry 1-0 pitch just over the left field wall in Forbes Field, Pittsburgh.

When the Mets came along in 1962, I switched back to National League allegiance. They were so bad (40-120 that first year), I guess I felt I could play for them. And they had such a list of characters in those early years … Marvelous Marv Throneberry … Roger Craig {18 straight losses in 1963} … Choo Choo Coleman … Ed Kranepool … Gil Hodges, Richie Ashburn and Don Zimmer (all well past their prime) … and the irascible Casey Stengel as manager.

I sort of lost interest in baseball after the strike year of 1981, but started to get back into it about 10 years ago after watching games with my dad, a staunch Yankee fan.

I still prefer football … especially games in the snow. But watching baseball gives you an opportunity to multitask between pitches and innings. Or, at least, let your eyes rest.

At any rate, it’s time to Play Ball!

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Your life can be what you want it to be.

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Midweek Mirth

One of the misconceptions about being a Christian is non-Christians think we don’t know how to have fun or have a sense of humor. Trust me, if the Big Guy can have a sense of humor when it comes to dealing with us mere mortals, so can we.

The difference for Christians is we don’t have to debase ourselves or others to generate a smile. Laughter at life or ourselves is a gift from God.

So, let’s smile a little!

Free Will

A young couple came into the church office to fill out a pre-marriage questionnaire form. The young man, who had never talked to a pastor before, was quite nervous and the pastor tried to put him at ease. When they came to the question, “Are you entering this marriage of your own free will?” there was a long pause. Finally, the girl looked over at the apprehensive young man and said, “Put down ‘yes!'”

And now for the bonus…

 Technology Dependent

A woman recently went on a trip and had to stop at a rest area on the Interstate. She took her keys, but left her purse and cell phone in her car, and went to the restroom. When she returned, her remote wouldn’t unlock the door and she panicked. “What am I going to do? My cell phone is still in the car and I can’t call Onstar!”

Another traveler nearby overhearing this asked, “Have you tried the key?”

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: You’re unique and one of a kind.

 

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A Year of Heaven Shining Through

It’s hard to believe, but my novella, Heaven Shining Through, is a year old. It officially went to press a year ago today and formally released by Xulon Press through Amazon (amazon.com/dp/1545624569) March 28, 2018.

That was the beginning of this year-long journey that has changed my life. It was formally launched after getting the books in hand April 29, 2018 (follow the joy at https://www.facebook.com/joe.siccardi/videos/10211711964459086/) at The Mill Café, Dover-Foxcroft, ME. I also presented a copy of the book to the Thompson Free Library, Dove-Foxcroft, and the Interlaken (NY) Public Library Board, and held a book signing and presentation at Edith B. Ford Library, Ovid, NY, Waterloo (NY) Library, Mynderse Library (Seneca Falls, NY) and Elizabeth Garnsey Delavan Library (Lodi, NY). I also made presentation to small groups in Maine and upstate New York {and am open to meeting with individual reading groups and organizations. If anyone is interested, just let me know.}. I still would like to make some presentations to the libraries in Paterson and Totowa, NJ, and my alma mater, Dominican College of Blauvelt (NY). You can also order a copy of Heaven Shining Through by contacting me by e-mail at wisdomfromafather@gmail.com and I would be happy to send you a signed copy.

I certainly haven’t gotten financially rich on the project — although that wasn’t the primary reason to publish anyway — but I have received personal satisfaction knowing the little novella touched many people. I’ve heard that comment over and over during the past year.

It has been received well with solid 4-5 star ratings by reviewers. Just a sample — An Excellent ReadAn Examination of a Strained Parent Child RelationshipThe Book Is Amazing, Inspirational, Uplifting and Heart Warming … Great Read!

Another — which affirmed my intent and gave me a direction for the future — was Excellent Christian Witness {the affirmation}, Could Have Been a Novel {the future}.

Heaven Shining Through is a story within a story. The underlining theme is the restoration of a relationship between Sam and her mother. It is told through the prism of a flashback of Sam’s life — her early home experiences, her wilder side, meeting the love of her life, Chad, her growth as a wife and mother through sorrow and blessings, and the presence of God in an ordinary life.

I tried to keep it real with appropriate language and activities {which did turn off some reviewers, especially Christian reviewers}. I purposely stayed away from being “preachy” but rather told a story that showed the presence of God in everyday, sometimes messy lives. My hope was and is readers will be able to see that.

A lot of the activity takes place in the greater Paterson, NJ, area, which is where I called home as a youth. Some of the backdrops will be familiar to fellow Patersonians who grew up in the mid 60s and why I think there is a potential audience base there.

Also late last year, I published a second book, Wisdom From a Father … One Dad’s Thoughts on Life (amazon.com/Wisdom-Father-dads-thoughts-life/dp/1727315316/). Yes, if that title sounds familiar, it is the title of this blog. The book is an update of some of the early posts here, offering my views on life … and sharing it with you. There are joys. There are tribulations. There are reflections. There is every day life. In each essay I tried to convey a recognition of a greater Power who colors my perspective.

However the big news {talk about burying the lead} is I am actively reworking Heaven Shining Through, expanding it from a novella into a novel — something a number of reviewers had requested. Yes, I said actively.

I think I’m about 80% through the project. I have some decisions to make on how to best complete it, how to flesh out the characters, and, most of all, how and where to end it.

That’s where you potentially come in. I would like to form a pre-launch team of no more than five individuals to beta read the book, offer suggestions and comments, keep me accountable and true to my Christian beliefs. I will create a private Facebook group for the team and schedule just a few online “meetings” to discuss the book and its progress. Hopefully the team would also join a formal launch team as I get closer to publishing.

If you’re interested, let me know. The best way is by e-mail, wisdomfromafather@gmail.com. I do hope to start the pre-launch no later than April 15, so let me know what you bring to the table and why you might be interested.

I can’t wait. I hope you can be part of the team!

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Your presence is a present to the world.

 

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Crowning Himself

Words for the Week to ponder.

It is said Napoleon, after bringing much of Europe to his knees, proclaimed himself emperor. He ordered Pope Pius VII to be present to present the crown. However, his pride was so great he would not allow anyone to place the crown upon his head, so he placed it there himself.

How different men will see themselves when they stand before God. We will cast our crowns before His throne and confess that all glory, honor and power belong to Him. (see Revelation 4:10-11)

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: The single most significant decision I can make on a day-to-day basis is my choice of attitude. — Charles Swindoll

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Journey to the Cross

So then, with endurance, let’s also run the race that is laid out in front of us. Hebrews 12:1

As we grow and become who God has created us to be, we journey through times of waiting, temptation and struggle. But there is more to the journey than only difficult times; there are also moments of rest and celebration.

When we make it through times of struggle, we can look back and realize God walked with us through it all, strengthening us and showing us the way. God didn’t remove struggle from our lives, but God gave us what we needed to make it. In these times, we see clearly God has helped us and will continue to help us, and we know God’s presence satisfies us like nothing else.

Maybe you’re not there yet. Maybe you are in the middle of a difficult time and you don’t feel like celebrating. Hold on, friend. Keep going. God’s strong hands are holding you too.

God, thank you for giving me exactly what I need for where I am in my journey. I celebrate because You have been a help to me and You will continue to help me my whole life long. Amen.

As you go, hear the words of Jesus encouraging you on your journey, Look, I Myself will be with you every day. (Matthew 28:20)

This reflection was by Dixie Ford, children’s pastor at Grace, a United Methodist congregation in Birmingham, AL. She and her husband Scott are loving life with two children, two teenagers, two cats and two new puppies! It is shared through the d365 daily devotional site produced by Passport, Inc., a national student ministry organization, and partnered through The Office of Ministries with Youth, Presbyterian Mission Agency.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: When I understand that everything happening to me is to make me more Christlike, it solves a great deal of anxiety. — AW Tozer

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On Our Knees

As we build this community prayer platform, we ask the Lord to listen to our petitions with full confidence they not only are heard but acted upon by God according to His holy will. These requests are on my prayer list and I hope you consider putting them on yours as you place your petitions before the Lord Sunday.

We actually have thank yous to kick off our prayer time.

Gavin was discharged this week. The family thanks God and us for the prayers. There is still have more recovery but they get to do it at home.

Mary Beth is battling cancer and needs prayers for calmness and peace.

Baby Maren has been moved to Neonatal ICU. The family — Sunnie, Jeff and Maren — asks to be included in our thoughts and prayers.

Beverly is asking for prayer. She is going through some trials with work, home and health and needs healing and deliverance in Jesus. Kelley, too, would appreciate prayer. She’s been struggling all week and just can’t seem to get back in balance.

The wound on Kevin’s leg opened and is infected again after cutting his leg on a jagged board two months ago. He also asks prayers for his brother and family and his father was rushed to the hospital with pneumonia.

Jim and Joe are battling financial demons and attacks and Andrew continues to have more pain and challenges.

We come to You, Lord, because prayer is the least yet the greatest thing we can do for each other. When two or more are gathered in Your name, we confidently know You are with us. What better company can we have? You reign and we trust You! We may be broken and battered but know You heal and quiet the soul. You are the source for all that happens in our lives. We thank You for the progress being made. We thank You for the many blessings we have received this week — some we unfortunately didn’t notice. Nonetheless, those blessings are ever-present in our lives. We thank You for healing. We thank You for slowing us down. We thank You for providing us our daily needs — no more and no less. We thank You for being with us, listening to us, walking with us on this journey. We thank You for the support of our family and friends … for seeing the extraordinary in the ordinary — sunrises, sunsets, flowers, kids laughing, adventures, good news amid the bad news. We also know we can come to You with our concerns and they will be heard. We lift up those family members and friends who are battling various physical, emotional, financial, career or spiritual issues and ask not for Your guidance and healing (although that would be welcomed) but to keep reminding us we are not alone in our battles. Specifically we lift up Gavin, Mary Beth, Maren Sunnie, Jeff,  Beverly, Kelley, Kevin, Jim, Joe and Andrew. We pray for obedience to Your Will so Your “Son” Light shines through us through the power of the Spirit. And we come to You through the confidence of the words taught by Your Son Jesus. Amen.

Keep your joys and concerns coming. They have been and will be included during my prayer time and I trust they will be on your lips as well as you approach the altar. All it takes is a couple of keystrokes under the “Contact Me” button on the top bar {or to the right if you’re not a follower yet}. I hope it becomes your best friend as you navigate around the site so we can all be viable prayer warriors. You can also comment or reach me at wisdomfromafather@gmail.com.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Life has a delicate beauty that is often lost in the perceptions of the world around you. When you look at life, do you see beauty?

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Five Minute Friday — Reward

Whether it’s Friday, Saturday or sometimes Sunday or later, I’m compelled to participate in the Five Minute Friday exercise, much like a schoolboy with an assignment — and it’s been a lot of years since I’ve been in school!

Our hostess, Kate Motaung sums up the community. “Five Minute Friday is a weekly testimony of the creativity of our God. Every weekend, I step back and smile at the way God takes a single word and turns it into a fountain of varied inspiration. I love seeing the many avenues that branch out from the same starting point, and how some travel the same path, but with their own stride. Five Minute Friday has taught me that God is a creative God. When we come together in community, gathering around the same prompt, we reflect His image through our unity and diversity.”

Amen.

The prompt word is developed at a Twitter party Thursday night and released at 10 p.m. From there, the creativity begins … all writing unscripted for five minutes (or so) on the prompt word. And, of course, we meet and greet at her place (in the Community section at www.fiveminutefriday.com) to share and network. It’s fun, fun, fun and keeps our neurons sharp. It’s that simple. It’s fun, energizing and keeps your mind active amid the daily routine. You should check out some of the work at Kate’s  place or, better yet, try you hand at it.

The prompt this week is REWARD. The time has been set, so I guess it’s time to GO …

When I saw this week’s prompt, my mind immediately raced to a Ray Boltz song. Ironically, it was Thank You, but the words I remember most were near the end when the Lord speaks to the new heavenly recruit, “My child, look around you, great us your reward.”

That’s what my blogs are all about. That’s what my life is all about. It’s not the accolades or even the expectation of the Lord patting me on the back. No, it’s making a difference — a small difference sometimes — in other people’s lives and steering them to Jesus and His Love.

I try to never proselytize through this medium. Preaching and converting is above my pay grade. Instead, I try to be a simple conduit linking the Lord with others’ hearts so they can see the Love I see, the Hope I have, the Faith I believe. I try to be the mirror reflecting the Light, not the flame.

My prayer … STOP

is when I show up at the Pearly Gates I get an opportunity to see the people I influenced to seek that special relationship with the Lord. I’m not looking for any thank yous, but my heart will leap if I hear the words from the Lord, “My child, look around you, great is your reward.”

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place.

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Rx

I was binge watching some shows this week and was surprised by the number of prescription drug ads. I know they have been there for — like — ever, but this time around, rather than fast forwarding through them, I actually watched some of them. What a range of direct to consumer pitches — rheumatoid arthritis, chronic plaque psoriasis, Crohn’s disease, fibromyalgia, diabetic nerve pain, spinal cord injury nerve pain, pain after shingles, psoriatic arthritis, prevention of stroke and blood clots, melanoma, non-small cell lung cancer and other cancers, aid in smoking cessation, Type 2 diabetes, ankylosing spondylitis, asthma, migraines, human immunodeficiency virus (HIV)/acquired immunodeficiency syndrome (AIDS), obstetrical/gynecological drugs, erectile dysfunction, bipolar disorder, sleeplessness and even chronic heart failure.

Now, I believe in an informed consumer. But, let’s face it, these are first and foremost ADS intended to convince patients into believing these products are in the front of treatment options. It minimizes the role of physicians {although many of them are so detached from actual treatment plans}. In a perfect world, your primary care physician is the quarterback of a treatment team that includes specialists. In our world, doctors often don’t talk to each other so patients get over-prescribed and/or receive prescriptions that counter existing medications or create new problems.

Because these are slick advertising pieces, the actors portrayed live otherwise normal lives despite their maladies. And their illness seems to exist in a vacuum with other medical issues. I mean, you see asthmatics running around in fields of clover; people with arthritis tying junior’s shoes; cancer patients bouncing around a day after chemotherapy; those with psoriasis dancing, swimming and touching their partners {after treatment, of course}; radiant grandparents who are able to chase their smiling grandchildren and puppies around the park because they took the right medication; diabetics enjoying {occasional} junk food; and celebrities endorsing products. Off-label uses such as weight loss and blood pressure reduction are often heralded. Who doesn’t want to lose a couple of pounds or lower their blood pressure?

By law, pharmaceutical advertising does have to include side effects like swelling of legs, hands and feet; capillary leak syndrome; fever; muscle pain; unusual bruising; dizziness, blurry vision; rash; hives; blisters; nervous system and blood disorders; lymphoma; swollen tongue; dry mouth; weight gain; inability to fight infections; nausea, diarrhea; constipation; depression; dehydration; suicidal thoughts; and, oh, death.

And there is always a litany of “don’ts” and “ifs”. Don’t take {name of  drug} if …” My favorite is “Don’t take … if allergic to it.” I mean, come on. How do you know if you’re allergic to something before you take it? “If you experience shortness of breath or swelling of the throat,  seek emergency health services immediately.” I mean, come on. Isn’t that just common sense — any time?

Again, I’m not against information, but misinformation — or sugar coated information — can be harmful to your health. I hope everyone develops a good, honest relationship with their health care professional. Be part of the conversation, but recognize you are unique and your heath issues are unique, with treatment not to be determined by a 60 second, actor-portrayed sales pitch.

And that’s my rant for the day.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Every morning you have two choices: continue to sleep with your dreams or wake up and chase them.

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Midweek Mirth

One of the misconceptions about being a Christian is non-Christians think we don’t know how to have fun or have a sense of humor. Trust me, if the Big Guy can have a sense of humor when it comes to dealing with us mere mortals, so can we.

The difference for Christians is we don’t have to debase ourselves or others to generate a smile. Laughter at life or ourselves is a gift from God.

So, let’s smile a little!

Mister Fix-It

A little girl was watching her daddy repair his tractor. She asked her mother, “What happens to old tractors when they finally stop working?”

Sighing, her mother answered: “Someone sells them to your father, dear.”

 

And now for the bonus…

 

Punniness

How does Moses make his tea? Hebrews it.

Venison for dinner again? Oh deer!

A cartoonist was found dead in his home. Details are sketchy.

I used to be a banker, but then I lost interest.

England has no kidney bank, but it does have a Liverpool.

I tried to catch some fog, but I mist.

They told me I had type-A blood, but it was a Type-O.

I changed my iPod’s name to Titanic. It’s syncing now.

Jokes about German sausages are the wurst.

I know a guy who’s addicted to brake fluid, but he says he can stop any time.

I stayed up all night to see where the sun went, and then it dawned on me.

This girl said she recognized me from the vegetarian club, but I’d never met herbivore.

When chemists die, apparently they barium.

I’m reading a book about anti-gravity. I just can’t put it down.

I did a theatrical performance about puns. It was a play on words.

I didn’t like my beard at first. Then it grew on me.

Did you hear about the cross-eyed teacher who lost her job because she couldn’t control her pupils?

When you get a bladder infection you know urine trouble.

Broken pencils are pretty much pointless.

What do you call a dinosaur with an extensive vocabulary? A thesaurus.

I dropped out of the Communism class because of lousy Marx.

I got a job at a bakery because I kneaded dough.

Velcro … what a rip off!

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Don’t spend time beating on a wall, hoping to transform it into a door. — Coco Chanel

 

 

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Writing 101

During a recent Five Minute Friday Twitter Party, a topic of discussion was about getting ready to write and writing effectively. When I taught my Writing 101 class, participants wanted to know the same thing. How do I begin.

My flippant — but honest — answer was, “Just write.” It doesn’t have to be the beginning; it has to be a launching point. You capture the moment’s thought and fill in the gaps later — or as one of my Twitter comrades stated she writes a few critical scenes “then write connective tissue from beginning to the end.

I am an advocate of the “everyone has a story” camp, but I also recognize people don’t write for a singular reason. In addition to the plethora of genres available, there are just as many audiences. I emphasized that to my students. Not every piece of writing is intended as a novel. More often the audience is smaller and more focused, like in blogging. And it isn’t unusual to write for an audience of one — either as a prayer journal for God or an everyday journal to monitor your personal progress. All, however, begin with that first word, that first sentence, that first paragraph, that story flow.

Writing doesn’t have to be daunting and it doesn’t have to be perfect. It’s an exercise that sharpens the mind and mines the rich resources stored in our brains. Once the words flow, we can reconstruct them using the “rules” of grammar, punctuation, tense and context. That’s editing — which, by the way, is never done. I’ve already {hopefully} polished some of my text as I expand Heaven Shining Through from a novella to a novel. And I wouldn’t be surprised if, after it is actually published, I start saying “I wish I would have said this;” or “That could have been explained better;” or “What in the world was I thinking?” as I read it in print. {That happened after reading my “final” galley proofs, necessitating a few rewrites, much to the chagrin of my publisher.}

It all comes down to communication, whether the project is the next best great American novel; a local post; or even a press release. Writing is nothing more than communicating your thoughts to others through words. Sentences, paragraphs, characters, plots, sub-plots and themes are just tools.

Don’t be afraid to share your thoughts, but always remember your audience.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow, it empties today of its strength. — Corrie ten Boom, Clippings from My Notebook

 

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