Five Minute Friday — Tomorrow

These are strange times we’re living through. The uncertainties of the covid-19 virus, the effects on everyday life from the pandemic, even the craziness of panic purchases have left us virtually sheltering in place, with minimal contact with a much compressed world outside. Thank God, we can write down our thoughts as we go through these crazy days.

Our Five Minute Friday community remains a beacon for support and prayer. Many of last night’s posts shared suggestions about what to do with the kids, suddenly home instead of in school. There was also an open ended invitation for support from community members … because that’s what we do best.

Our fearless moderator Kate Motaung  supplies us with the one word prompt and off we go! Our weekly exercise is designed for five minutes of uninterrupted patter of the fingers representing the thoughts of the heart, soul and mind.When done, we link up in the Community section at fiveminutefriday.com, then settle in to gently critique and soak in our neighbors’ work. I can’t wait to find new friends each week!

I invite you to join us in reading the wide interpretations and multi-genre presentations of the prompt. Or, better yet, try your hand! It’s five minutes (more or less) with few rules and no obligations. It’s fun (albeit sometimes challenging). It’s networking at its finest. We love meeting new friends!

To help inspire you to join our group, I’ve included testimonials from writers as outlined in Five Minute Friday: A Collection of Stories Written in Five Minutes Flat, compiled by Susan Shipe. This week, I’ll share some words from Katie’s heart.

“FMF is a hospitable, fun and caring group of writers. Not only have I been challenged to write off the cuff, but I’ve been inspired by the words of others and encouraged by the friendships that have been forged through this community.”

Amen!

This week’s prompt is TOMORROW. The timer has been set, so it’s time to GO…

When my middle son was little, he would go around singing the opening stanza from Tomorrow from the musical Annie — “The sun’ll come out … Tomorrow … Bet your bottom dollar … That tomorrow … There’ll be sun!” I’m not sure why. I don’t even know if he identified with Daddy Warbucks or Rooster Hannigan or one of the supporting waif characters. The first few times it was cute. After about the next 100, it was less than amusing … but it remains a memory for me.

I thought about that song and the phrase I’ve been known to use on occasion — “The sun’ll come out … Tomorrow … “even before the current virtual lockdown. I’ve really thought about it since the prompt was given last night.

Truth is, we don’t know if the sun will shine tomorrow. It might rain or snow, after all it is March. All we have is today’s gift and yesterday’s memories. Tomorrow? That’s the future and well out of our mortal hands. We have to wait for the present, unwrap the present, enjoy the present when it is given to us.

Tomorrow may be bright and sunny. It may be stormy and confusing … STOP

but it will come. Even when our today is the last gift, there will be a tomorrow. It’s up to us to choose whether that eternal tomorrow is in the bright and sunny presence of the Lord or in the turmoil, pain and separation in the other not so good place.

But, it is a choice we have to make today … before tomorrow.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: If you are going to doubt something, doubt your limitations.

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Time Out …

We are — at least in the USA — in a virtual time out. Almost every facet of our lives have changed in less than a week. In addition to the heath risks {which is not be be minimized}, the economic and social impact of the virus is significant. Closings of schools and offices, suspending or cancelling sporting events, and limiting mass gatherings are bummers. Trying to figure out what to do for day care for those parents where schools are closed by mandate will be harrowing. Tele-working will present challenges. Restaurants and small businesses will be impacted beyond belief. Travel plans and spring breaks are in turmoil.

My travel plans have been altered. While I am in Ohio today, the plan was to migrate back east to New York {upstate} then Massachusetts to get closer to Maine for a follow-up doctor’s appointment April 1. Instead, I will hunker down in Kentucky. I do not know if my doctor will be seeing routine patients. We’re in a holding pattern as the ramifications of the health emergency still sift down.

Time will tell whether we over or under reacted to the crisis. After all, there are an estimated  billion seasonal flu cases worldwide; 9.3 to 45 million cases in the U.S. per year. As of today — less than six months since the first confirmed covid-19 case — there are approximately 222,643 cases worldwide and 9,415 cases of covid-19 in the U.S.  While the mortality rate for the seasonal flu is an astounding 291,000 to 646,000 deaths worldwide and 12,000 to 61,000 deaths in the U.S. per year, approximately 9,115 covid-19 deaths have been reported worldwide; 150 in the U.S., as of today.

However, there are two big differences which have caused alarm. First of all, we have a history with seasonal flu resulting in vaccines and/or mitigating treatment. We have no real experience with covid-19. We are still learning about it’s pathology and transmission. Second, we have discovered the incubation period for covid-19 is much longer than the seasonal flu. The seasonal flu is generally transmitted within one to three days of symptoms, but covid-19 incubates for up to 14 days — with or without symptoms — during which time it can be transmitted to others

You can find up-to-date information on covid-19 at the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC).

And so, we are on our mandated time out. All the disruption will give all of us a chance to do less over the next few weeks. Our choices will be limited, which means we should have more time to spend with our families … if we take advantage of it. It could be a time to reconnect with your spouse or kids. It could be an opportunity to catch up on the to do list, perhaps even including the whole family to clean up, spruce up or catch up. It could also be a time to some extra reading or extra study or extra prayer time — again as a family?

As we go a little stir crazy in our own little cocoons, one diversion might be to read a good book or two or a dozen. Chances are it will have to be one collecting dust on your bookshelf or through electronic services like e-books or audiobooks. Amazon has announced suspension of deliveries of non-essential products.

There are thousands of titles available in every imaginable genre, from arts & photography to travel … from biographies & memoirs to teen & young adult … from children’s books to sports & outdoors … from Christian to self-help … from history to romance … from literature & fiction to mystery, thriller & suspense. {Hint: I have three titles available on Kindle in case you’re interested in some  uplifting reading. Sorry for the self-plug.}

How are you surviving our time out? Any innovative approaches you can share? Any tips for others on how to keep the family engaged or keeping up with schoolwork?

My thoughts and prayers go out to all impacted by the pandemic, which probably will be every one of us. I’m concerned … but I’m not worried. Because I also know I am in Good Hands, the Architect who knows the grand plan.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: When you don’t understand it, when you can’t figure it out, when you don’t know what you are going to do, just remember — God has a plan. So don’t worry.

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Midweek Mirth

One of the misconceptions about being a Christian is non-Christians think we don’t know how to have fun or have a sense of humor. Trust me, if the Big Guy can have a sense of humor when it comes to dealing with us mere mortals, so can we.

The difference for Christians is we don’t have to debase ourselves or others to generate a smile. Laughter at life or ourselves is a gift from God.

It’s time for some Midweek Mirth so let’s smile a little!

Finally

After years of scrimping and saving, a husband told his wife the good news: “Honey, we’ve finally saved enough money to buy what we started saving for way back in 2000.”

“You mean a brand-new Mercedes?” she asked eagerly.

“No,” he replies, “a 2000 Mercedes.”

And now for the bonus …

Listening

Suzie was in kindergarten. There was a boy in her class who wasn’t listening to the teacher. The teacher said to him, “Since you don’t want to listen, you sit at that table by yourself.”

After a few minutes, Suzie raised her hand and said, “I don’t want to listen either. Can I sit with him?”

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: A good laugh is sunshine in the house. — William Thackeray

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… A Time to Read

People in the United States — and elsewhere around the world — are experiencing some strange times. “Normal” does not exist because of a germ. It has virtually shut us down … places of worship, schools, libraries, restaurants. Many of us are being encouraged to shelter in place, stay away from crowds, minimize contact outside the home. A few have been self-quarantined as a transmission mitigation effort, while others who have tested positive for the COVID-19 virus strain have been quarantined, mild cases at home and more severe in isolation wings at hospitals and health care facilities.

The actions are designed to slow transmission of the disease or, as the experts say, “flatten the curve”. There have been some driven by fear who have overreacted, leading to irrational panic. They see some type of apocalypse ahead. They could be right, but … they may be wrong. These precautions may just be a temporary bump on the road of life … perhaps a speed bump to intentionally slow us down.

All the disruption will give all of us a chance to do less over the next few weeks. Our choices will be limited, which means we should have more time to spend with our families … if we take advantage of it. It could be a time to reconnect with your spouse or kids. It could be an opportunity to catch up on the to do list, perhaps even including the whole family to clean up, spruce up or catch up. It could also be a time to some extra reading or extra study or extra prayer time — again as a family?

As we go a little stir crazy in our own little cocoons, one diversion might be to read a good book or two or a dozen. Chances are it will have to be one collecting dust on your bookshelf or through electronic services like e-books or audiobooks. Amazon has announced suspension of deliveries of non-essential products.

There are thousands of titles available in every imaginable genre, from arts & photography to travel … from biographies & memoirs to teen & young adult … from children’s books to sports & outdoors … from Christian to self-help … from history to romance … from literature & fiction to mystery, thriller & suspense.

I have a few suggestions {pardon the self-plug} if you’re looking for some uplifting reading. May I suggest one of my books?

Heaven Shining Through is my first novella released just about two years ago. It currently has a 4.2 rating Throughout her life, Samantha had a rocky relationship with her mother – and now her mother is all she has left. Through a nostalgic look back, Samantha recognizes the presence of God in an ordinary life. She learns more about herself as a wife and mother who has had her share of sorrow and blessings. As her faith increases, she is able to see her mother through new eyes, leading to reconciliation …and is reminded of that every time she sees Heaven Shining Through.

My Name Is Sam … and Heaven Is Still Shining Through is an expansion of Heaven Shining Through with further character and story development. It also continues Sam’s story and has an Amazon rating of 4.6.

Sit down with a cup of coffee or a nice wine and visit with Sam as she shares a lifetime of memories in this new Christian-themed fictional memoir. It introduces Sam (Samantha), her family and friends in more detail than the original, and picks up where the novella left off. I hope readers get to know Sam as a friend, a life long friend. Share her life … complete with some drama, some humor, some heart tugs. Just a free-willed suburban Jersey girl trying to figure out this journey called life with the presence of God in an ordinary life as the underlying theme.

In between the two fictional novels, I published Wisdom From a Father … one dad’s thoughts on life. This non-fiction collection of short stories, taken from my blog of the same name, has an Amazon rating of 4.4.

I’m just that ordinary Joe walking on the path of life … and sharing it with you. There are joys. There are tribulations. There are reflections. There is every day life. In each essay I try to convey a recognition of a greater Power who colors my perspective. My comments are always filtered through the lens of my Judeo-Christian values and largely based on 40 years of marriage raising five children.

All three are available in print or Kindle, and the last two through KOLL and KU.

My thoughts and prayers go out to all impacted by the pandemic, which probably will be every one of us. I’m concerned … but I’m not worried. Because I also know I am in Good Hands, the Architect who knows the grand plan.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Let God weave His tapestry however He wants on His schedule.

 

 

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The Danger Within Us

French author Victor Hugo has a short story titled, 93. In the midst of this tale, a ship at sea is caught in a terrific storm. Buffeted by the waves, the boat rocks to and fro, when suddenly the crew hears an awesome crashing sound below deck. They know what it is. A cannon they are carrying has broken loose and is smashing into the ship’s sides with every list of the ship. Two brave sailors, at the risk of their lives, manage to go below and fasten it again, for they know that the heavy cannon on the inside of their ship is more dangerous to them than the storm on the outside.

So it is with people. Problems within are often much more destructive to us than the problems without.

Today, God’s word would take us “below decks” to look inside ourselves concerning the whole matter of forgiveness.

This reflection is from Stephen M. Crotts/George L. Murphy, Sermons For Sundays: After Pentecost (Middle Third): The Incomparable Christ, CSS Publishing Company. Cited on www.eSermons.com

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Do something today that will make you a better person tomorrow.

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A Fork in the Road

This week’s reflection is by Wren Wynn of Agape Metropolitan Community Church, Fort Worth, TX.

“I was starting in ignorance, fueled by more ignorance and a major helping of incorrect information …” — Gary Paulsen, Winterdance

When I was a little girl I dreamed of becoming an astronaut. I learned constellations and the phases of the moon. I put glow in the dark stars on my ceiling. I practiced my math and science, always trying my very best in school so I could go to a university like MIT and one day travel to space. I gathered pamphlets and brochures for Space Camp, watched every movie ever made that involved space travel (I still kind of regret watching MOON), and spent copious amounts of time in my room playing astronaut, preparing myself for my inevitable journey into space. I reveled in every breath the day my parents took me to the Kennedy Space Center.

Then, I was informed (incorrectly informed) by an adult I trusted, girls could not be astronauts. And, in my childhood ignorance and innocence, I believed them. I was told math was for boys and really smart girls. I was told I was not a smart girl. Being an astronaut was not only not for girls, but I was stupid to even think I could do something so great.

I never became an astronaut … even though girls can, have been, and are astronauts. I am now 36 and I still mourn that dream.

Many times throughout our lives we come to a watershed in the journey, a fork in the road that requires us to make one of two choices: believe what other people tell us or believe what our heart tells us. If we choose the path of others’ voices and judgments, we begin to slowly embody those thoughts. We begin to believe and even tell ourselves the negative, the diminishing, the lack-luster. Contrary-wise, each time we choose to listen to our heart, to listen to the calling of that which brings us greatest joy and peace, we embody our authenticity — positivity, grandness, potential, beauty. The more we practice choosing our heart-song on the journey, the easier choosing to believe in our self becomes until ignorance and incorrect information are no longer what inform our journey or our dreams.

Sacred Spirit, may I know in those moments of ignorance and incorrect information Your grace. Help me to believe in myself, my potential, my beauty. May I awaken to the truth my dreams are wonderful and vital — a gift and blessing from You. Help me to have the courage to journey towards my dreams each and every day. Amen and amen.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: A positive anything is better than a negative nothing.

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Til He Returns …

As we build this community prayer platform, we ask the Lord to listen to our petitions with full confidence they not only are heard but acted upon by God according to His holy will. These requests are on my prayer list and I hope you consider putting them on yours as you place your petitions before the Lord Sunday.

Let’s remember to approach the throne room and respond with faith and not fear, knowing the promises of God and His mighty hand will hold us through any situation! Sometimes, all it takes is just one prayer to change everything. Something extraordinary happens when two or more agree together in prayer.

What is one of the most important things we should do as Christians? Praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication. To that end, keep alert with all perseverance, making supplication for all the saints (Ephesians 6:18).

Thoughts and prayers to all worldwide suffering from the consequences of conavirus flu – and all other strains.

Andrew continues to struggle. He is having a tough time breathing and has lost his voice.  Tough times for a tough guy. Prayers – and a sense of humor – are keeping him afloat.

Maria had an operation for a brain tumor, but it has returned. She is very weak and has been placed on palliative care.

Nova has had chronic pain since birth with MS.

Pray Sam will be reunited with his daughters.

Teresa has been diagnosed with Lyme Disease. Apparently, it’s been in her system for years. She is now on antibiotics and in pain. Please pray for her.

Linda is trying to beat cancer but her body is failing. Surgery has been scheduled.

Nikki heard from her oncologist. The growth has not metastasized, but has got bigger so chemo hasn’t worked. They are going to try hormone treatments. She is feeling pretty gutted… lost her hair for second time for nothing. She is living this nightmare for three years and needs prayer and support.

Troubling  sequence for a family. Donna suffered a stroke. After visiting, her sister Lisa was in a car accident and she is paralyzed from the waist down. As her husband left the hospital, he suffered a heart attack and died.

Geska is back to the hospital for IV fluids. She can’t swallow her own saliva. The ulcers are spreading to her hands and soles of her feet. So weak, so tired, so sore!

Prayers need for Lizzie who is being treated for autoimmune encephalitis.

There were a host of unspoken prayer requests and we heard of a number of deaths this week. Prayers for their families as they go through this earthly trial. We grieve … heaven rejoices.

We come to You, Lord, because prayer is the least yet the greatest thing we can do for each other. When two or more are gathered in Your name, we confidently know You are with us. What better company can we have? You reign and we trust You! We may be broken and battered but know You heal and quiet the soul. You are the source for all that happens in our lives. We thank You for the progress being made. We thank You for the many blessings we have received this week — some we unfortunately didn’t notice. Nonetheless, those blessings are ever-present in our lives. We thank You for healing. We thank You for slowing us down. We thank You for providing us our daily needs — no more and no less. We thank You for being with us, listening to us, walking with us on this journey. We thank You for the support of our family and friends … for seeing the extraordinary in the ordinary — sunrises, sunsets, flowers, kids laughing, adventures, good news amid the bad news. We know we can come to You with our concerns and they will be heard. Through Christ all things are possible. We lift up those family members and friends who are battling various physical, emotional, financial, career or spiritual issues and ask not for Your guidance and healing (although that would be welcomed) but to keep reminding us we are not alone in our battles. Specifically we lift up Andrew, Maria, Nova, Sam, Teresa, Linda, Nikki, Donna, Lisa, Geska, Lizzie, and all those needing Your healing and guiding touch. We pray for the families of all those You have called home. We grieve … You celebrate. We pray for obedience to Your Will so Your “Son” Light shines through us through the power of the Spirit. And we come to You through the confidence of the words taught by Your Son Jesus. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Keep your joys and concerns coming. They have been and will be included during my prayer time and I trust they will be on your lips as well as you approach the altar. All it takes is a couple of keystrokes under the “Contact Me” button on the top bar {or to the right if you’re not a follower yet}. I hope it becomes your best friend as you navigate around the site so we can all be viable prayer warriors. You can also comment or reach me at wisdomfromafather@gmail.com.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Prayer is man’s greatest power. — W. Clement Stone

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Five Minute Friday — Less

Five Minute Friday is designed for Friday writing, specifically five minutes of uninterrupted patter of the fingers representing the thoughts of the heart, soul and mind. Our fearless moderator — with help from her Twitter friends — supplies us with the one word prompt and off we go! When done, we link up at community link at fiveminutefriday.com, then settle in to gently critique and soak in our neighbors’ work. I can’t wait to find new friends this week!

I invite you to join us in reading the wide interpretations and multi-genre presentations of the prompt. Or, better yet, try your hand! It’s five minutes (more or less) with few rules and no obligations. It’s fun (albeit sometimes challenging). It’s networking at its finest.

To help inspire you to join our group, I’ve been including testimonials from writers as outlined in Five Minute Friday: A Collection of Stories Written in Five Minutes Flat, compiled my Susan Shipe. This week, I’ll share some words from Tammy’s heart.

“I am new to FMF, I just recently heard about it and started participating. I usually miss the Twitter party. It’s a bit late for me 🙂 I am so anxious to learn what the word is, I wind up checking my phone when sleep is disrupted.

“I enjoy the challenge of ‘writing on the fly,’ without space for planing. As a planner, this is a great writing exercise for me.

“I have built community through participating. I am often surprised and delighted with how much traffic my FMF posts receive. It is  safe place to practice my craft and sharpen my skills. FMF has given me a place where I no longer feel like a ‘wanna be writer,’ but a writer!”

This week, the Kate came up with LESS as the prompt. The timer is set, so it’s time to GO …

I don’t mean to minimize the severity of the coronavirus outbreak, but in light of our prompt, I was struck with some thoughts. Being a half full type of guy, I found some positives with the pandemic.

Sure, in addition to the heath risks, the economic and social impact of the virus is significant. Closings of schools  and offices, suspending or cancelling sporting events, and limiting mass gatherings are bummers. Trying to figure out what to do for day care for those parents where schools are closed by mandate will be harrowing. Tele-working will present challenges.  Restaurants and small businesses will be impacted beyond belief. Travel plans and spring breaks are in turmoil. But …

All the disruption will give all of us a chance to do less over the next few weeks. Our choices will be limited, which means we should have more time to spend with our families … if we take advantage of it. It could be a time to reconnect with your spouse or kids. It … STOP

could be an opportunity to catch up on the to do list, perhaps even including the whole family to clean up, spruce up or catch up. It could also be a time to some extra reading or extra study or extra prayer time — again as a family?

My thoughts and prayers go out to all impacted by the pandemic, which probably will be every one of us. I’m concerned … but I’m not worried. Because I also know I am in Good Hands, the Architect who knows the grand plan. Thy will be done.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Happiness is when what you think, what you say and what you do are in harmony. — Mahatma Gandhi

 

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Free Range

As I’ve noted before, driving is my therapy. Inside the cockpit, I’m alone with nothing but my thoughts {okay, Angelina is usually my travel companion, but she doesn’t say much — unless it’s time for a potty stop}. I’ve been known to play the air drums, break out in tears, yell and scream, or just sedately listen to the voices in my head — all while keeping a keen eye on the road at 50, 60 or even 70 mph.

And, you heard my latest complaint about listening to audiobooks on muli-hour, multi-state trips. They were okay, but, generally speaking, I found my creativity stifled listening to the audiobook. My neurons seemed caged, focused more on listening to the book than sparking thoughts.

I like to let my neurons free range on road trips, flitting from one random thought to another. My imagination runs wild. Some would say it runs amok. Well, yesterday they were running free as I trekked from New York to Ohio.

I usually have a CD supply or IHeartRadio or Pandora to subliminally entertain me and open the cages. Yesterday I was listening to The Wolf, Country’s Best out of Idaho courtesy of Tune-In Radio. Since they have a no repeat policy and limited on line advertising, it was just the stimulus need to wake up the neurons. There were current country songs and artists … but quite a few of their older offerings as well. There were some old standards by the likes of Dwight Yoakum, George Strait, Dolly Parton, Martina McBride, Johnny Cash, Alan Jackson, Shania Twain … just to name a few.

When Remember When blared through the speakers, I could hear the neurons whisper, “How is he going to react?” I remembered, not with melancholy but with celebration. I could hear them dancing to Nine to Five, forcing the fingers to dance on the steering wheel. When Rodney Atkins preached If You’re Going Though Hell I found myself raising my hands {one at a time} with them shouting “Amen!” Songs like Gettin’ You Home (The Black Dress Song) or The Farmer’s Daughter or Forever and Ever, Amen or The Way You Love Me brought back fond memories.

I could hear the voices talking. One voice asked why I was listening to country music. “Didn’t he say the only way to listen to country music was in a pickup?” The other chipped in, “Maybe he’s thinking about getting a pickup”. On cue, the next song on the playlist was Pickup Man. When I Will Always Love You played, one of the voices pointed out, “Wasn’t that from Best Little Whorehouse in Texas?” and the other added, “Yes. And he saw it in Texas!” That opened new memories of my training time in Texas, which led me to my time working in Illinois {where I was working when I went for the training} and the many friends I have and had in the Land of Lincoln.

I pulled off the Turnpike to the lyrics of This Is Country Music by Brad Paisley and I thought to myself, “Yes, this is country music … and this is life.” I could feel those neurons fist bumping.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: In the confusion, we stay with each other, happy to be together, speaking without uttering a single word. — Walt Whitman

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Midweek Mirth

One of the misconceptions about being a Christian is non-Christians think we don’t know how to have fun or have a sense of humor. Trust me, if the Big Guy can have a sense of humor when it comes to dealing with us mere mortals, so can we.

The difference for Christians is we don’t have to debase ourselves or others to generate a smile. Laughter at life or ourselves is a gift from God.

It’s time for some Midweek Mirth so let’s smile a little!

Logic

So, making guns illegal will take them off the street?

Well then, we should make heroin and meth illegal too. Oh, wait …

And now for the bonus …

Goal!

A three year old in the congregation regularly watched football games with his father, so much so, he knew some of the signals the referee makes. On a recent Sunday, as the pastor raised his hands high to offer a blessing, the child interrupted the service by shouting, “Touchdown!”

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: A good laugh is a mighty good thing, a rather too scarce good thing. — Herman Melville

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