Play Ball!

I’m not as big a fan of baseball as I was as a kid. In fact, I sort of lost interest in the sport back during the lockout of 1994. It was passively rekindled when I would sit with my dad and watch Yankee games between alternating snoozes.

I played baseball in my younger days, first as stick ball in the street and pick-up games at local lots in Paterson, NJ, then with the Paterson Little League — go Chevy Midgets! — and finally as a freshman in high school where a slightly gun shy catcher {I had broken my finger in my last Little League appearance} was no match for an eventual All-League backstop. So, I traded the bat and glove in for a pad and pencil and pursued other {although unbeknownst to me at the time} career path pastimes.

I discovered I enjoyed writing about baseball much more than playing it and was blessed to cover the 1970 Little League World Series {wow, 50 years ago!} when Wayne-New Jersey East waltzed through the Williamsport tournament with three straight shutouts over Canada-Quebec (10-0), Highland-Indiana Central (4-0), and finally Campbell-California West (2-0), two of the shutouts by Steve O’Neill and a team ERA of 0.00 — both still in the official Little League record books. The following year, 1971, I followed the Pequannock (NJ) East squad to Gary, IN, and the Senior Little League World Series. The Jersey squad played four close games in the double elimination tournament, beating Puerto Rico, 7-5, and Wisconsin, 4-3, before dropping a 3-1 decision to eventual champion LaHabra, CA, in a 17-inning marathon in the semifinals and in 11 innings to the eventual runner-up, Richmond, VA .

Only my oldest son showed any real interest in baseball beyond early summer amusement. But four of my grandsons hit the diamond with determination well beyond Little League. One played in college and the developmental league before a shoulder injury and adulting took over.

All of that brings us to today … actually last night. My youngest Ohio grandson is  playing in a shortened community league. I got to see him play and I will probably be watching again this evening when he has another game scheduled.

The present tucked in among the memories. I am blessed.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Peace does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble or hard work. Peace means to be in the midst of all those things and still be calm in your heart.

 

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Midweek Mirth

One of the misconceptions about being a Christian is non-Christians think we don’t know how to have fun or have a sense of humor. Trust me, if the Big Guy can have a sense of humor when it comes to dealing with us mere mortals, so can we.

The difference for Christians is we don’t have to debase ourselves or others to generate a smile. Laughter at life or ourselves is a gift from God.

Here’s this week’s edition of Midweek Mirth  … so let’s smile a little!

For Dad

Top four affirmations your dad needs to hear this Father’s Day:

             I appreciate what you do.

             I respect who you are.

             Your presence means the world to me.

             You are making a difference.

And now for the bonus …

 Concert Program

A three year old girl begged to be allowed to attend a concert with her older sister and brother. She assured her mom she was a big girl and would behave herself. As they took their seats in the orchestra hall, mom handed programs to the kids. Following the lead of her older siblings, the three year old opened her program, and in her most grown-up voice said, “Mommy, I’ll have the chicken, please …”

And just so we don’t forget …

More Lockdown Humor

People are using the word “lockdown” because they don’t know how to spell kwarinteen.

Have you noticed the amount of selfies being posted are down by 68%?

I hope all the school teachers realize their students will return to class using old math.

Ontario has banned groups larger than five. If you’re a family of six, you’re all about to find out who’s the least favorite!

My house got TP’d last night. Now it’s appraised value has doubled.

After many days of not going out, I saw someone I knew walking by on the sidewalk outside. I immediately ran to the window, threw it open and started yelling to them. Now I understand dogs.

Maybe God wanted us to social distance — to draw nearer to Him.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Against the assault of laughter, nothing can stand. – Mark Twain

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The Screwtape Letters

I never read The Screwtape Letters. I knew it was a classic C.S. Lewis tale, but it just never intrigued me enough to buy it or borrow it from the library. For some reason, however, I decided to download it as an audio book for my journey from Kentucky to Ohio. It wasn’t a bad decision, although some of Screwtape’s correspondence got a little redundant.

If you haven’t read the book, it is a fictional Christian apologetic novel Lewis uses to address theological issues, primarily those to do with temptation and resistance to it. The story is simply a one-sided series of letters — 31 — from a senior demon Screwtape to his nephew Wormwood, a junior tempter in the “lowerarchy” of hell.  Screwtape responds to his nephew’s reports regarding his responsibility in securing the damnation of a British man known only as “the patient”. It was first published in February 1942, thus evoking the fear of war, hatred of the Germans, and war itself.

It took my mind awhile to adjust to dealing with the patient in reverse of my Christian thought. The dominant theme is the perpetual battle between God and Satan, but from Satan’s point of view. Once I made the adjustment I could better follow Screwtape’s detailed advice to Wormwood on various methods of undermining God’s words and of promoting abandonment of God in “the patient” or his observations on human nature and the Bible. In Screwtape’s advice, selfish gain and power are seen as the only good, and neither demon can comprehend God’s love for man or acknowledge human virtue. Through the negative I could see the positive. Through the letter I could see the lesson.

The patient converts to Christianity after the second letter so the focus shifts. Wormwood is anxious to tempt his patient into extravagantly wicked and deplorable sins, often recklessly, while Screwtape takes a more subtle stance. Lewis, through Screwtape, describes and discusses sex, love, pride, gluttony, and war in his letters, with a fair number involving attempts to find a licentious woman for the patient. The patient chooses to fall in love with a Christian girl and through her and her family a very Christian way of life. When the patient dies he goes to heaven … and Wormwood is disgraced among his devilish peers.

Some of the highlighted conversations include Screwtape noting “It is funny how mortals always picture us as putting things into their minds: in reality our best work is done by keeping things out” (Letter IV); explaining the different purposes God and the devils have for the human race: “We want cattle who can finally become food; He wants servants who can finally become sons” (Letter VIII); and remarking “… the safest road to hell is the gradual one — the gentle slope, soft underfoot, without sudden turnings, without milestones, without signposts.” (Letter XII)

My version also included a short postscript written in 1959 for the Saturday Evening Post, “Screwtape Proposes a Toast”. It brought the sequel into the post war and cold war era and thus closer to our contemporary times with indictments on education, unrest, and politics. Here, Screwtape offers an after-dinner speech given at the Tempters’ Training College for young demons. I found it more engaging — albeit in reverse thinking.

Then again, sometimes looking at events through other’ — even enemy — eyes can be more illuminating.

The Screwtape Letters (audiobook), C.S. Lewis, author; Joss Ackland, narrator; Publisher: HarperAudio, (Aug. 21, 2012); $14.36 or 1 credit;Listening Length, 3 hours and 59 minutes; Unabridged; English; ASIN, B0090CJ5X2.

Paperback: 209 pages, $11.99 (Prime); Publisher: HarperOne; Reprint edition (April 21, 2015); English; ISBN-10: 0060652934; ISBN-13: 978-0060652937

Kindle: $7.99; File Size: 2066 KB; Publisher: HarperOne; Reprint edition (May 28, 2009); Sold by: HarperCollins Publishers; English; ASIN: B002BD2V2Y; Text-to-Speech: Enabled; X-Ray: Enabled; Word Wise: Enabled; Lending: Not Enabled; Screen Reader: Supported; Enhanced Typesetting: Enabled.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: And now that you don’t have to be perfect, you can be good — John Steinbeck

 

 

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Special Thoughts

Our Words for the Week come from Steve Shepherd in the SermonCentral Weekly Newsletter

Dr. James Dobson’s experience at the public school system was from 1960-63. In his the final year, he had to say goodbye to 25 to 30 teary-eyed kids. One young lady whom he said goodbye to in 1963 called him in 1975. Julie had grown up. James remembered her as a seventh grader with a crisis of confidence in herself. Her Latin heritage embarrassed her and she was overweight. She had only one friend, and this friend had moved away the following year. She and Dr. Dobson talked on the phone about the good ole days.

“Where do you go to church?” she asked. He told her, and she asked if she could visit. He told her she could, and the next week she came. In the coming months, she became a Christian.

A few months after her initial visit, Dobson asked her, “Julie, I want to ask you a question. Will you tell me why you went to so much trouble to obtain my unlisted number and call me last fall?”

“Because when I was a seventh-grade student in junior high school, you were the only person in my life who acted like you respected and believed in me, and I wanted to know your God.”

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Imagine your dreams … then make them real.

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Drawing From the Source

Our reflection for today is from Dr. Charles Stanley of In Touch Ministries

For us as believers, contentment should be governed by inner attitude and the decisions we make rather than by external circumstances. Because Paul had learned this secret, he was able to experience joy and peace in any kind of situation — whether he was surrounded by friends or isolated in a Roman prison; whether he had plenty or was in great need.

The apostle understood what it meant to live in Christ and to have Christ living in him (John 15:1-9; Galatians 5:22-23). He had made a simple but profound faith decision to draw his life from the Lord and, as a result, had the calm assurance what he possessed inside could never be stolen. He was confident in his identity as a child of the Almighty, with full access to the abundant life Jesus offers.

I want to challenge you — this week, when something threatens to steal your contentment, choose to draw from God; decide to stop drawing from other sources and trying to be in control. When you find yourself becoming flustered, anxious, or angry, stop and say, “Lord, You are my source, and I draw from You the capacity to be kind. I draw from You the forgiveness I need to extend right now. I draw from You the love I need to express.” This decision is a matter of simple trust.

Watch and see how God will quiet your spirit and provide confidence when you draw only from Him as your source. You’ll be surprised at your own attitude: when you respond from within–rather than from the flesh — Jesus will give you the ability to respond as He would.

Charles Stanley is senior pastor of First Baptist Church in Atlanta, GA. He is the founder and president of In Touch Ministries and served two one-year terms as president of the Southern Baptist Convention from 1984-1986. He has an evangelical and dispensationalist theology. For more biblical teaching and resources from Dr. Stanley, visit intouch.org or listen to him at OnePlace.com

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Remember, This is the day the Lord has made.

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God Is Always Faithful …

As we build this community prayer platform, we ask the Lord to listen to our petitions with full confidence they not only are heard but acted upon by God according to His holy will. These requests are on my prayer list and I hope you consider putting them on yours as you place your petitions before the Lord Sunday.

Approach the throne room and respond with faith and not fear, knowing the promises of God and His mighty hand will hold us through any situation! Sometimes, all it takes is just one prayer to change everything. Something extraordinary happens when two or more agree together in prayer.

What is one of the most important things we should do as Christians? Praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication. To that end, keep alert with all perseverance, making supplication for all the saints (Ephesians 6:18).

And, so, Lord, we come to You with our petitions, knowing and expecting Your will to be done.

Thoughts and prayers to all worldwide suffering from the consequences of coronavirus flu – and all other strains. Many – many – of the prayer requests are covid-19 related … people diagnosed … people sick … people dying … relatives worried and isolated. We are in this together – in prayer!

Please keep the victims of household abuse in your prayers. Whether it be physical, emotional, sexual or neglect, this time in particular is very horrifying for them to be trapped in a house with their abuser(s) and not being able to escape.

We also need to pray for colorblind peace. Racism will remain a plague until we stop looking at people as black and white, but as human beings created by the same Creator. We pray for new eyes, calmer heads, and softer hearts. 

Eric is at end stage of an autoimmune disease, battling high ammonia. He is very weak and has dropped 40 pounds in three months. Prayers requested.

Laura is in pain beyond what she can explain. Prayers please.

Virginia is in the hospital again, this time for bacterial meningitis. Prayers needed.

Urgent prayer request for an encouraging CT scan for Pamela.

Please pray for Tom who cut himself while using a chain saw.

Please pray for five year old Angela. She had some sort of anaphylaxis reaction the other day and now her head hurts. She is awaiting MRI results.

Please pray for John who just had a heart attack (angina pectoris due to coronary arteries narrowed or blocked by atherosclerosis/blood clot) and went to the hospital via ambulance.

Mindy had a stroke in my eye Friday and lost her eyesight in her right eye. It was diagnosed as a central retinal artery occlusion (CROA) and she is in the stroke ICU. Prayers requested.

Cindy is asking for prayers. She has had three heart attacks and headed to ER with possibly another one.

Jack was involved in a boating accident. He is listed in serious. Prayers requested.

Please pray for God’s blessings in some legal situations Pete faces.

Please pray for the safe and healthy pregnancy for Henna. Last time she had an etopic pregnancy which did not survive.

Lissette is going to take a very important and difficult test for real estate Sunday. She has failed several times and is feeling discouraged and hopeless. Can you please pray for her to pass this very important test with good results so she can move forward and schedule the other part of the test.

Please pray the infection in Donna’s legs will be healed.

Please pray Sarah is fit and healthy enough to return to medical school this year. She was temporarily excluded two years ago and it has constantly been under review. She is better now, but it’s been really difficult to get a job. She just want to go back to university and finish medical school, so she can graduate and be a blessing to others.

Please pray for Michelle. Her blood pressure is really high and it’s never like this. She is already on medication, so she is not sure what’s going on and is really scared. She believes it’s anxiety from all that’s going on.

Toby is fighting an infection caused by stepping on a nail. He is in danger of losing part of his leg. Prayers requested.

Beth is having a difficult baby delivery. Prayers are requested for a healthy delivery and her health.

Leroy is disabled with a spine injury, but the disability company cut his benefits and said he could work. Please pray the assistance is  restored. He is a single parent and needs a miracle.

Please pray for a healing of Frank’s neck. It causes severe pain in both arms and has already caused nerve damage in both hands. He is constantly in pain.

Please pray for Alma whose heart rate and BP are running a little high.

Please pray for Debra who is battling insomnia and other issues.

Please pray for Liz who is battling type 2 diabetes and high cholesterol.

Leticia is suffering from glaucoma, optic nerve damage/detachment, and high pressure in the eyes. Prayers requested.

Please pray Miriam’s health challenges are resolved and her upcoming health tests and reports are good.

Pray for a complete skin healing for five year old James.

Please pray for Greg. He has some kind of infection in his leg. The doctors amputated his toe and foot, and now they may have to amputate his leg above the knee.

Hilda, 94, fell and broke her hip. She is currently in rehab. Prayers requested.

Andrew continues to struggle. He had a few very bad, dark nights this week, but continues to battle through prayer – and a sense of humor.

There were a host of unspoken prayer requests and we heard of a number of deaths this week. Prayers for their families as they go through this earthly trial. We grieve … heaven rejoices.

We come to You, Lord, because prayer is the least yet the greatest thing we can do for each other. When two or more are gathered in Your name, we confidently know You are with us. What better company can we have? You reign and we trust You! We may be broken and battered but know You heal and quiet the soul. You are the source for all that happens in our lives. We thank You for the progress being made. We thank You for the many blessings we have received this week. Some we unfortunately didn’t notice. Nonetheless, those blessings are ever-present in our lives. We thank You for healing. We thank You for slowing us down. We thank You for providing us our daily needs — no more and no less. We thank You for being with us, listening to us, walking with us on this journey. We thank You for the support of our family and friends … for seeing the extraordinary in the ordinary — sunrises, sunsets, flowers, kids laughing, adventures, good news amid the bad news. We know we can come to You with our concerns and they will be heard. Through Christ all things are possible. We lift up those family members and friends who are battling various physical, emotional, financial, career or spiritual issues and ask not for Your guidance and healing (although that would be welcomed) but to keep reminding us we are not alone in our battles. Specifically we lift up Eric, Laura, Virginia, Pamela, Tom, Angela, John, Mindy, Cindy, Jack, Pete, Henna, Lissette, Donna, Sarah, Michelle, Toby, Beth, Leroy, Frank, Alma, Debra, Liz, Leticia, Miriam, James, Greg, Hilda, Andrew, and all those needing Your healing and guiding touch. We pray for the families of all those You have called home. We grieve … You celebrate. We pray for obedience to Your Will so Your “Son” Light shines through us through the power of the Spirit. And we come to You through the confidence of the words taught by Your Son Jesus. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Keep your joys and concerns coming. They have been and will be included during my prayer time and I trust they will be on your lips as well as you approach the altar. All it takes is a couple of keystrokes under the “Contact Me” button on the top bar {or to the right if you’re not a follower yet}. I hope it becomes your best friend as you navigate around the site so we can all be viable prayer warriors. You can also comment or reach me at wisdomfromafather@gmail.com.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: The whole reason why we pray is to be united into the vision and contemplation of God to Whom we pray. – Julian of Norwich

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Leticia is suffering from glaucoma, optic nerve damage/detachment, and high pressure in the eyes. Prayers requested.

Please pray Miriam’s health challenges are resolved and her upcoming health tests and reports are good.

Pray for a complete skin healing for five year old James.

Please pray for Greg. He has some kind of infection in his leg. The doctors amputated his toe and foot, and now they may have to amputate his leg above the knee.

Hilda, 94, fell and broke her hip. She is currently in rehab. Prayers requested.

Andrew continues to struggle. He continues to battle through prayer – and a sense of humor.

There were a host of unspoken prayer requests and we heard of a number of deaths this week. Prayers for their families as they go through this earthly trial. We grieve … heaven rejoices.

We come to You, Lord, because prayer is the least yet the greatest thing we can do for each other. When two or more are gathered in Your name, we confidently know You are with us. What better company can we have? You reign and we trust You! We may be broken and battered but know You heal and quiet the soul. You are the source for all that happens in our lives. We thank You for the progress being made. We thank You for the many blessings we have received this week. Some we unfortunately didn’t notice. Nonetheless, those blessings are ever-present in our lives. We thank You for healing. We thank You for slowing us down. We thank You for providing us our daily needs — no more and no less. We thank You for being with us, listening to us, walking with us on this journey. We thank You for the support of our family and friends … for seeing the extraordinary in the ordinary — sunrises, sunsets, flowers, kids laughing, adventures, good news amid the bad news. We know we can come to You with our concerns and they will be heard. Through Christ all things are possible. We lift up those family members and friends who are battling various physical, emotional, financial, career or spiritual issues and ask not for Your guidance and healing (although that would be welcomed) but to keep reminding us we are not alone in our battles. Specifically we lift up Eric, Laura, Virginia, Pamela, Tom, Angela, John, Mindy, Cindy, Jack, Pete, Henna, Lissette, Sarah, Michelle, Toby, Beth, Leroy, Fran, A;ma, Debra, Liz, Leticia, Miriam, James, Greg, Hilda, Donna, Andrew, and all those needing Your healing and guiding touch. We pray for the families of all those You have called home. We grieve … You celebrate. We pray for obedience to Your Will so Your “Son” Light shines through us through the power of the Spirit. And we come to You through the confidence of the words taught by Your Son Jesus. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Keep your joys and concerns coming. They have been and will be included during my prayer time and I trust they will be on your lips as well as you approach the altar. All it takes is a couple of keystrokes under the “Contact Me” button on the top bar {or to the right if you’re not a follower yet}. I hope it becomes your best friend as you navigate around the site so we can all be viable prayer warriors. You can also comment or reach me at wisdomfromafather@gmail.com.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: The whole reason why we pray is to be united into the vision and contemplation of God to Whom we pray. – Julian of Norwich

 

 

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Five Minute Friday — How

You know the drill. I’ll post this Five Minute Friday contribution, link on the Community section of the group’s Facebook presence at  fiveminutefriday.com and scan through the incredible work of my fellow writers. As I always say, you should try it as well — both writing and contributing or at least visiting the sites of this talented crew.

I’ve also been sharing other takes on the value of the exercise, taken from snippets found in Five Minute Friday: A Collection of Stories Written in Five Minutes Flat, compiled by Susan Shipe as an added inducement to join in. Here’s Alice’s take.

“Every Thursday night I try to stay up late, because there is a tiny excitement in knowing the FMF prompt! I let  the word sink in my mind as I go to get sleep and let the word bring thoughts, emotions and verses in my mind. It’s a beautiful thing, how a word can trigger so many thoughts! Most times I realize that the verses and passages and memories of the incident were lying waiting for this word to bring it back to life. I look forward to writing five minutes every Friday on a word, just one word, and not just that, but also reading and discovering the thought process of so many other bloggers who have dwelt on that same word!”

So, let’s get into this week’s word, HOW.  The clock starts ticking now …

The catechism tells us God made me to know Him, to love Him, and to serve Him in this world, and to be happy with Him forever in heaven. As Christians, that doesn’t seem so unreasonable. We know God. We love God. We hope to be happy with God in heaven.

Ah, but now the rub. We’re to serve God in this world. That begs the big question: HOW.

We know we’re not perfect. We also know in our imperfection, we are often blinded by our biases, cultures, gender, station in life. The world around us — remembering we were born into it at this time and place — helps shape the world we are trying to serve. And, so, the big HOW.

I  wish I had an answer. I don’t … at least not one that makes sense. That’s because this particular time and place we are in, this season of our life, and our circles shape our thinking. If we were born in medieval times, or even a couple of generations ago, … STOP

our worldview certainly would be different. Even in the days of Jesus — when we wouldn’t have been Christians, by the way — we most likely would have been looking for a different kind of Messiah, one who would liberate us in this world, and probably with little thought about eternity.

But we weren’t placed in the world then. We are placed in the world now, today, so the question again comes to how are we to serve in this world.

We can’t serve without change — and that begins with you and me. I will never pretend to understand the oppression others have experienced. Quite honestly, I never experienced it. I’ve read about it. I even researched some of it. But I never lived it. So, when I see the peaceful protests morph into lawlessness and looting, the message gets lost in my translation.

I — we — have to look beyond the darkness and look for the light. There is so much to celebrate in life — accomplishments, opportunities, walking together. We have to be willing to not only talk together but listen and work together. We have to switch our thinking from six square blocks of chaos in Seattle to the peace and tranquility of almost 84 square miles of the city.  We have to remember one bad action — be it law enforcement or law breakers — is not all inclusive. We have stop dividing and start uniting. Banning Civil War era films, tearing down statues, replacing one culture’s icons for another’s are not the answer.

For what it’s worth, my HOW is to always remember, there is no skin color in heaven — just the radiant glow of our universal Maker.

Please people, focus on the Light. Draw attention to the Light. Serve the Light … now more than ever in a season of dark.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Yes, I am a dreamer. For a dreamer is one who can find his way by moonlight, and see the dawn before the rest of the world. — Oscar Wilde

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Congratulations

It’s been a different school year for the graduating kids of 2020. Many will or have received diplomas through virtual settings. The anticipation of finals, the pomp and circumstance, the speeches, the comradery of the class, final hugs and goodbyes, the parties — all gone. But the memories will last a lifetime, actually, extra special memories of how you survived pandemic.

There are always memories coming at commencement ceremonies. The one the Class of 2020 at Ashley Ridge High School in Summerville, SC, experienced is one of those never to forget moments. As Principal Karen Radcliffe was introducing the school’s valedictorian and salutatorian to the assembly at the school’s Swamp Fox Stadium, the sprinklers went off, drenching the students who were sitting socially distant apart across the athletic field.

Over the years, I watched kids grow up before my eyes in my role as editor and publisher of the Reveille/Between the Lakes in Seneca County, NY. I came to know and love the seniors in Piscataquis County, ME. I’ve walked with my share of children and grandchildren as they stepped from one chapter of their lives into another. And seniors around the country experienced the same milestone. By extension, new chapters abound as students “graduate” from kindergarten to primary school, primary school to middle school, middle school to high school and even post-graduate or the workforce following a college career.

In years past, I always shared  some words for the graduates in the Reveille/Between the LakesI have a different platform these days — this blog — but the message is timeless and universal.

Expect the unexpected — as the students in South Carolina did. Embrace the challenges. Enjoy the life ahead of you!

Here’s to the Class of 2020!

Congratulations!

You will be hearing that word many times over the next few weeks. But remember it always. You will gain something … more than just a diploma, more than just recognition for putting up with four years of high school.

You don’t realize it yet, but the lessons you learned over the years were a lot more than just “book knowledge.” You learned discipline. You learned interpersonal skills. You matured.

No, you are not just graduating from high school. You are advancing from one chapter in your life into another. In four years – four very short years – you went from an adolescent to a young man or woman, ready, willing, and able to conquer and make your mark on the world.

Just as these last four years were transitional, so, too, will be the next couple of years. Whether you continue in school or join the workforce or serve your country, change will be inevitable. Nothing ever remains the same.

We’ll offer some words of advice and encouragement on this, your big day. Dream your dreams. Follow your ambitions. Set your goals. But, above all, be true to yourself. Do the best you can … with an emphasis on the word “you.” You’ll know. You’ve always known when you gave it your all … and so did everyone else. You’ve always known when you didn’t … and so did everyone else.

Don’t try to live up to somebody else’s standards. Set your own. Don’t try to please everyone else at your own expense. Eventually you’ll regret it. Keep your faith and trust in humanity. Look for the good in people and the bright side of every calamity. All things have a purpose … you just have to look a little deeper for some.

Again, congratulations. We applaud your past achievements and we look forward to your future accomplishments. You have to believe you can be whatever you want to be. They key word there is “believe.”

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: You can’t be brave if you’ve only had wonderful things happen to you. — Mary Tyler Moore

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Midweek Mirth

One of the misconceptions about being a Christian is non-Christians think we don’t know how to have fun or have a sense of humor. Trust me, if the Big Guy can have a sense of humor when it comes to dealing with us mere mortals, so can we.

The difference for Christians is we don’t have to debase ourselves or others to generate a smile. Laughter at life or ourselves is a gift from God.

So, here’s this week’s edition of Midweek Mirth  … so let’s smile a little!

Amen

A father and son were riding in their truck together one day and the son asked the father, “Dad, how high can you count?” Dad countered with “How high can you count?”

The son immediately replied, “One thousand, five hundred, forty-two.”

The father said, “Why did you stop?”

The son shrugged his shoulders and said, “Well, church was over.”

And now for the bonus as we crawl away from our lockdown with a smile …

Pandemic Paranoia

Until further notice the days of the week shall be called: THISday, THATday, OTHERday, SOMEday, YESTERday, NEXTday, and Tomorrow.

Remember when you were wishing the weekend would last forever? So … are you happy yet?

You know the world is upside down when you go to the bank and someone wearing a mask and gloves isn’t tackled by security.

Now, just like that, having a mask, rubber gloves, duct tape, plastic sheeting, and rope in the trunk of your car is OKAY and you are not suspicious?

If they had just called it, “the Stay at Home Challenge” and posted it on Facebook, the virus would be gone by now.

What if they close the grocery stores and we have to hunt for food? I don’t even know where Little Debbie lives.

I am glad I did not waste my money on buying a 2020 Daily Planner book.

Classified Ad: Single man with toilet paper seeks woman with hand sanitizer for good clean fun.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Among those whom I like or admire, I can find no common denominator, but among those whom I love, I can: all of them make me laugh. — W. H. Auden

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Liturgy of the Ordinary

We were chatting on the Five Minute Friday Twitter feed a couple of weeks ago about seeing life amid the virus lockdown. I made the comment, “Look for the extraordinary in the ordinary … Every Day. Good days. Bad day. All days.” I’ll often include some version of that mantra when I sign books.

That led to suggestions from my fellow tweeters to read the book Liturgy of the Ordinary by Tish Harrison Warren. Since I was heading to South Carolina for a long weekend, I downloaded the audio version. It was just over four and a half hours long — a perfect listen for the leg of the journey.

Good choice, ladies. The book is filled with nuggets of information — sermons, really, camouflaged as witty, real life stories you or I can readily relate to. Or, in other words, storytelling with a message.

Warren is an Anglican priest. In this book, she makes the connection between the ordinary and how it illuminates the extraordinary. Chapters follow an ordinary day including such mundane topics as Waking (and how it relates to Baptism and learning to be beloved); Making the Bed (liturgy, ritual, and what forms a life); Brushing Teeth (standing, kneeling, bowing, and living in a body); Losing Keys (especially relevant given my experiences related to confession and the truth about ourselves); Eating Leftovers (word, sacrament, and overlooked nourishment); Fighting with Her Husband (yes, it is that real with the lesson on passing the peace and the everyday work of shalom); Checking E-mail (blessing and sending); Sitting in Traffic (liturgical time and an unhurried God); Calling a Friend (congregation and community); Drinking Tea (sanctuary and savoring); and Sleeping (sabbath, rest, and the work of God).

Often, I was with Tish in spirit, reflecting on my reactions to everyday events. No, I do not like making my bed. Yes, I lost my keys. Yes, I have had fights with my wife. Yes, I do get agitated when I’m forced to sit in traffic. No, I did not look at sleep as God’s means to refresh us.

I can’t share individual phrases that caught my attention because, as an audio book listened while driving, some of my attention was drawn to weaving traffic. Suffice it to say, however, there were enough of them to draw a glance at the radio and a few times when I hit rewind.

I do believe God speaks to us through the ordinary, the mundane, the everyday. And I do believe when He does, that ordinary, mundane, everyday event is transformed into something extraordinary. Tish Harrison Warren believes that as well. And if you listen or read her words, you will, too.

Liturgy of the Ordinary (audiobook), Tish Harrison Warren, author; Sarah Zimmerman, narrator; Publisher, christianaudio.com (Dec. 4, 2016); $14.69 or 1 credit: Listening Length, 4 hours, 38 minutes; Unabridged; English; ASIN, B01N51XRCI

Paperback, 226 pages, $19.99 (Prime); Publisher: ReadHowYouWant; Large type/large print edition (Jan. 16, 2017); English; ISBN-10: 1525233580; ISBN-13: 978-1525233586

Kindle, $11.33; File Size: 3399 KB; Publisher: IVP Books (Nov. 1, 2016); Sold by: Amazon.com Services; Language: English; ASIN: B01N2GWBNM; Text-to-Speech: Enabled; X-Ray: Enabled; Word Wise: Enabled; Lending: Not Enabled; Enhanced Typesetting: Enabled

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: The secret of peace is to give every care to God.

 

 

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