Five Minute Friday — Encouragement

Here’s this week’s installment of Five Minute Friday. You might remember the task is to write for five minutes on a specific prompt word. The initiative was started by Lisa-Jo Baker (http://lisajobaker.com/) who thought why not take five minutes and see what comes out: not a perfect post, not a profound post, just five minutes of focused writing.

This week’s prompt is ENCOURAGEMENT. The timer is set and the clock starts NOW.

We love our spouses, children and close friends.

We support them in all they do, cheering them for their accomplishments.

But what happens when their dreams hit the inevitable pothole or are detoured? What happens when they fail or do less than expected on a test or challenge? What happens when they face a loss, an illness or something else unexpected?

We love them. We support and celebrate with them But do we encourage them? Do we tell them — sincerely — we’re still here. Their dreams are still their dreams. Do we put an arm around their shoulder and tell them next time they will raise that C to a B and even if they don’t, as long as they tried their hardest, put everything they had in into it in your eyes they scored an A or won that trophy? Do we sit by in … STOP

sickness and loss, sometimes not even saying a word, just letting them know we’re there for them in whatever way they need.

Do they know we have their back? Do we push them gently to be the best they can be? Do we help build their confidence and self-esteem?

Do we encourage them?

That five minutes went quickly. Take the time to not only love and support your spouse, children or friends, but also to encourage them!

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Much of a man’s character is revealed by what makes him laugh.

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It’s Not Easy Being Green

I’m not really one into “personality” tests. You know, there are compatibility tests, sex tests and other magazine tests and quizzes. And there are more serious “psychological” tests. They all tend to tell you what you already know about yourself.

But a fellow blogger, Lily Mugford [http://lilymugford.com/] recently posted about her experience with color [or as she said, colour] psychology. She chose her hue as orange and explained why, linking to http://www.empower-yourself-with-color-psychology.com/.

Color psychology is the explanation of how colors affect our emotions, our moods, our health, our well-being, our energy, our mind and our spiritual awareness at both a conscious and subconscious level.

So I decided for shits and giggles to check the site out myself.

It started with just one question … and an admonition:

What is my favorite color?

Answer this question now before reading any further. Don’t think about it, be spontaneous with your answer; accept the first color that comes into your mind and don’t analyze your choice.

Well, the first thing that snapped in my mind was “green.” I don’t know why, but it has been my favorite color over the years although I am not passionately locked into that particular hue. And in that vein, I would say I am partial to bright, vivid colors … emerald green … royal blue … cherry red … sun yellow … pure white [as opposed to off white or eggshell] … pitch black [as opposed to shades of gray] … That has to be a psychological study by itself.

Well, anyway, after I mentally blurted out my answer, I scrolled down and low and behold, this followed.

If green is your favorite, you have a deep need to belong, to love and be loved and to feel safe and secure. You need acceptance and acknowledgment for the everyday things you do for others — just a “thank you” is sufficient.

While we all probably want those things, I can see why I chose green.

To expand further, green is the color of balance and harmony. From a color psychology perspective, it is the great balancer of the heart and the emotions, creating equilibrium between the head and the heart.

From a meaning of colors perspective, green is also the color of growth, the color of spring, of renewal and rebirth. It renews and restores depleted energy. It is the sanctuary away from the stresses of modern living, restoring us back to a sense of well being. This is why there is so much of this relaxing color on the earth, and why we need to keep it that way.

Green is an emotionally positive color, giving us the ability to love and nurture ourselves and others unconditionally. A natural peacemaker, it must avoid the tendency to become a martyr.

It loves to observe, and therefore relates to the counselor, the good listener, the social worker. It loves to contribute to society. It is the charity worker, the good parent and the helpful neighbor.

Being a combination of yellow and blue, green encompasses the mental clarity and optimism of yellow with the emotional calm and insight of blue, inspiring hope and a generosity of spirit not available from other colors.

This is a color that has a strong sense of right or wrong, inviting good judgment. It sees both sides of the equation, weighs them up and then usually takes the moral stand in making appropriate decisions. On the negative side, it can be judgmental and over-cautious.

Green promotes a love of nature and a love of family, friends, pets and the home. It is the color of the garden lover, the home lover and the good host. [Actually, the only thing I like about the garden is its fruits.]

It is generous and loves to share, but it also looks for recognition. It is friendly and can keep confidences.

This color relates to stability and endurance, giving us persistence and the strength to cope with adversity.

Green is the color of prosperity and abundance, of finance and material wealth. [????] It relates to the business world, to real estate and property. Prosperity gives a feeling of safety to green.

On the negative, the color green can be possessive and materialistic, with a need to own people and things.

So, there you have it. It reminded me of the time in Washington, DC, when I took advantage of an offer for a “face reading” as fodder for one of my columns. I don’t remember the details, but I sent her a photo of my face and she read the lines and wrinkles and curves and rolls and ticked off a litany of psychological traits. Some of my more conservative readers thought I was being narcissistic. My wife thought her analysis was right on. I just did it for fun. Hmmm. Wonder if I still have that column floating around?

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: The noble secret of laughing at oneself is the greatest humor of all.

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Five Minute Friday — See

Here’s this week’s installment of Five Minute Friday. You might remember the task is to write for five minutes on a specific prompt word. The initiative was started by Lisa-Jo Baker (http://lisajobaker.com/2014/01/five-minute-friday-see/) who thought about writing and how often our perfectionism gets in the way of our words. And she figured, why not take five minutes and see what comes out: not a perfect post, not a profound post, just five minutes of focused writing.

This week’s prompt is SEE. The timer is set … so here goes. {clock starts now}

We’re going to do this one together. I invite you to join in this little experiment.

Take a look around. I happen to be in my recliner in the living room, listening to soft music on the television and pecking keys on my laptop. Survey the landscape then close your eyes for about 10 seconds.

What do you see in the darkness behind your eyelids?

Here’s what I saw. The cranberry walls, which reminded me when Karen slowly brought color into my world … room by room. I saw the television, a 60 inch we never intended to buy when we brought ourselves a joint present one Christmas about eight or nine years ago but discovered as a real deal we both enjoyed for years {okay, me more so with my sports, but chick flicks weren’t so shabby either}. I saw the shelf Karen decorated herself from raw wood and all the cds from Christian to … STOP

… Neil Diamond to Bon Jovi and her collection of every season of 24. I saw our baby pictures on the wall and remembered how excited we were when we discovered them and how she placed them just right to showcase our beginnings. I saw our electric fireplace, a little more warped than the day I brought it as a Christmas present and she picked it out. Today the mantle holds her picture, our urns and a Christmas bouquet that still is amazingly alive. The fire is on, but the motor on the flame is frozen. And plaques for our children she picked out surrounding a plaque of our Lord flank the back wall. I see the sofa at a slight angle and remember the hours it took to get it into just the right position and the ah hah moment when she {with my help, of course} discovered the wood and tile table was the perfect complement behind it. I see her rocker recliner, moved by the door but still with the family blanket the kids gave us draped over the back.

I see wonder. I see her hand and influence. I see memories.

Well, that’s what popped into this mind this week.

What do you see in your surroundings?

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Laughter is the shock absorber of life’s blows.

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2013 in review

The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2013 annual report for this blog.

Here’s an excerpt:

A New York City subway train holds 1,200 people. This blog was viewed about 4,300 times in 2013. If it were a NYC subway train, it would take about 4 trips to carry that many people.

Click here to see the complete report.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Invest in laughter. It pays unlimited dividends.

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A Christmas Story … For the Whole Year

I was asked by some out of town followers to share this week’s sermon. So, here goes …

May these words of my mouth and this meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, LORD, my Rock and my Redeemer.

I shared a different Christmas story a couple of weeks back, but I thought it was appropriate for this morning. I’ll be paraphrasing.

I don’t know where it came from or who wrote it. In fact, if anyone knows, please let me know.

There was this man, a good, honest, upright soul, well respected for his integrity. But he was having a problem believing all this incarnation stuff about Jesus the churches were preaching. He just couldn’t understand.

Christmas Eve, he told his wife he wasn’t going to midnight services with her. He said he didn’t believe and didn’t want to be a hypocrite.

He told his wife to be careful since it was snowing as his wife and the kids left for church. He settled next to the fireplace to read.

All of a sudden, he heard a couple of thumps by his picture window. He thought it might be some kids throwing snowballs so he got up to investigate. Instead he saw a group of birds sitting and shaking in the snow. A couple must have run into the window, seeing the light and sensing the warmth.

He thought about it for a second, and remembered the barn where his kids kept their pony. So he put on his coat and galoshes and went out to the barn to open the door and turn on the light. Then he went to the birds, still shivering in the snow, but they didn’t recognize the light.

The man thought, maybe he could coax them by feeding them, so he went back inside and gathered some breadcrumbs, then laid a trail from the birds to the barn. Still nothing.

Then he thought he could persuade them to go to the warmth of the barn by circling them and gently swooshing them. But he quickly realized all he was doing was scaring the birds. They did not realize he was there to help, not hurt them.

So, he thought, if only I was a bird I could assure them I was a friend, not a foe. If only I was a bird I could communicate with them and lead them to the safety, security and warmth of the barn.

Just then, the church bells throughout his little town rang out. The man fell to his knees and said, “Now I understand.”

I’m a horrible reader. I don’t enjoy reading. It’s too tedious. I find myself trying to get into the mind of the writer, figuring out just why he or she wrote what he or she wrote. How could the sentence be restructured? Did he or she make her point with that phrase? How can I incorporate that phase or style into my writing?

I can’t simply sit down and curl before the fire and read for pure enjoyment sake. Reading is just too tedious a task.

Of course, sometimes, you have to read … like the passages needed for a sermon.

When you read the synoptic gospels, the birth of Christ generally opens the body of work. While John is not considered part of the synoptic crew, he is no different, although he generally forgoes the nativity. His starting point is more direct. In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.

No birth story, but rather the declarative statement, In the beginning was the Word, followed by and the Word was with God, and punctuated with and the Word was God.

Those 17 words stopped my train of thought (see it’s hard for me to just read). What was he saying and, more important, why?

Scholars are not sure the Apostle John authored the gospel, but he certainly influenced it. He lived a relatively long life, estimated about 94 years, and was the only apostle not martyred. The gospel was the last of the four written, probably in the latter years of the first century.

Which leads us to the why. By the time quill met parchment, the followers of Jesus had a pretty good idea about Jesus’ birth. John never specifically mentions the virgin birth. I’m guessing he assumed followers had three accounts — Matthew, Mark and Luke  — plus a plethora of tradition, some fact, some fiction. As Christianity grew, misconceptions grew. All sorts of splinters surfaced, including gnosticism, adoptionism and docetism.

As a non-scholar, I suggest John hit the pages running with his opening statement to establish first and foremost Jesus’ divinity. Jesus was the Word, which was with God from the beginning. I suspect this beloved apostle had heard the rumblings about all the Incarnation stuff about Jesus the early disciples were preaching. I mean. A virgin birth? What about that night in the barn, he he? And Nazareth, well it was more like Podunk than Paris, even in early Biblical times.

In the Gospel of John, Nathaniel asks, “Can anything good come out of Nazareth?” [1:46] The meaning of this cryptic question is debated. Some commentators and scholars suggest it means Nazareth was very small and unimportant, but the question does not speak of Nazareth’s size but of its goodness. In fact, Nazareth was described negatively by the evangelists; the Gospel of Mark argues Nazareth did not believe in Jesus and therefore he could do no mighty work there [Mark 6:5]; in the Gospel of Luke, the Nazarenes are portrayed as attempting to kill Jesus by throwing him off a cliff  [Luke 4:29]; in the non-canonical Gospel of Thomas, and in all four canonical gospels, we read the famous saying, a prophet is not without honor except in his own country.

To combat these, John opens with In the beginning was the Word, followed by and the Word was with God, and punctuated with and the Word was God. From the first words he dispels any rumors. He establishes who Jesus is … God Himself.

John made point of noting John the Baptist’s role. There was a man sent from God whose name was John. He came as a witness to testify concerning that Light, so that through him all might believe. He himself was not the Light; he came only as a witness to the Light. We know some felt this John was the Messiah and had a following, but the Baptist himself testified … “This is the One I spoke about when I said, ‘He who comes after me has surpassed me because He was before me.’”

See that connection?

Jesus was younger than John by a few months, but John adamantly says He “was before me.”

So, just like our friend in the story, the Incarnation was misunderstood and caused doubt and division. He — we — just couldn’t understand through the ages.

I have to confess, I don’t understand the mechanics of the Incarnation … but I don’t have to. By faith I can accept is as a mystery that will be revealed in due time.

Back to our story. Replace the man with us and our birds with Jesus. He comes and attracts our attention. We want to respond … but we just don’t how.

We might go through the mechanics of preparing a spot for Him (the barn), turning on a light … joining a church … reading and studying Scripture … doing Christian “things”. But the birds (Jesus) don’t respond.

Then we might think we can coax them (Him) into the barn and our lives. Our breadcrumbs might be offerings or mission support. But the birds (Jesus) don’t respond.

Then we might think we could persuade them to go to the warmth of the barn by circling them and gently swooshing them. A little bit like prayers. But the birds (Jesus) don’t respond.

If only we were birds. We could communicate with them and lead them to the safety, security and warmth of the barn … our heart.

And then it hits. Jesus came to communicate with us … not as a bird, but as a flesh and blood human. He came to lead us to the safety, security and warmth of His heavenly barn. He could not have come any other way. We can join a church, read all we want, do “Christian” things, give our offerings and mission support and pray … all good, honest, upright tenets. But we cannot understand the ways of the Lord if we can’t communicate with Him.

I think that’s what John is telling us.

The true Light that gives light to everyone was coming into the world. He was in the world, and though the world was made through Him, the world did not recognize Him. He came to that which was His own, but his own did not receive Him. Yet to all who did receive Him, to those who believed in His name, He gave the right to become children of God — children born not of natural descent, nor of human decision or a husband’s will, but born of God.

The Word became flesh and made His dwelling among us. We have seen His glory, the glory of the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth.

God came into our lives through Jesus. Jesus does not need us; we need Jesus. He is the communication tool that links this life to the next. Are we prepared to listen?

Just then, the church bells throughout his little town rang out. The man in our story fell to his knees and said, “Now I understand.”

So, too, Lord, may all the faithful fall to our knees and confess, “Now I understand.”

Amen.

THOUGHTS TO REMEMBER: To multiply your happiness, try dividing it with others.

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Another Prayer Request

Again I ask for prayers, although it is not really for myself.

While our pastor returns from well needed rest and relaxation, I was invited to fill the empty pulpit. I have been planning for it, but I also had the opportunity to go to tomorrow’s NFC Playoff game between the San Francisco 49ers and Green Bay Packers. I chose the higher road and will fulfill my elder responsibilities, trading the cold frigid seats in Green Bay for the not as cold seats in Fellowship Hall at West Fayette Presbyterian Church this Sunday (Jan. 5). Sometimes, you just have to marvel at God’s humor.

My prayer request is the same as the psalmist, May these words of my mouth and this meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, LORD, my Rock and my Redeemer (Psalm 19:4).

Pray the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart are indeed pleasing in His sight.

And, if you happen to be in the Finger Lakes area of New York, I welcome you to join us at 9 a.m. at West Fayette Presbyterian Church, on Route 336 just east of Route 96A and a few miles south of Geneva and north of Sampson State Park. I invite you not to listen to the guy in the pulpit, but to enjoy the fellowship of the little church with the big heart.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: We are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.

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Five Minute Friday – Fight

It’s the first Friday in January. Do you know what that means?

Five Minute Friday is back!

Under Lisa Jo Baker’s direction (http://lisajobaker.com/), hundreds of bloggers rally around a themed word and, well, write for five minutes. No rules. No backtracks. Nothing profound. Not perfect. Just five minutes of writing, letting the Spirit move you.

Our return word is FIGHT.

The timer is set and it’s time to write. GO.

There are so many ways to go with this. There is the physical fight … but I’m not a particular fan of altercation, so I’m not going there.

There are our personal fights … like against addictions or other struggles. But I’m forgoing that route as well.

Instead, I’m going to focus on the fight for life. So many friends and relatives have been engaged in the fight of their life, most often against the dreaded C word. And while I have not personally been involved in such a fight, I walked the walk with my wife as she battled Stage 4 small cell breast cancer. And I saw first hand the courage and faith she exhibited in her fight.

She reminded me every day is precious. Sure, there were down days, but more often she faced each new day … each new challenge … each new setback with a gritty determination. … STOP

She saw the beauty in the routine. She focused on the memories. She grew in faith and love — despite a relatively short five month fight from diagnosis to death.

I applaud Karen and all those battling this and other debilitating diseases for their courage, their tenacity, their faith and their fight.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: The secret of happiness is not in doing what one likes, but in liking what one has to do.

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First Night … and Beyond

From this guy’s standpoint, First Night Ocean County was a huge success. But, then again, any time spent at the Jersey shore is a success.

First Night Ocean County, in case you missed it, is a family-friendly event held New Year’s Eve afternoon … capped off with fireworks set off on the beach and exploding over the ocean. I don’t have numbers, but would estimate hundreds were on the Seaside Heights boardwalk — many kids decked out with balloon animal hats and carrying spoils from their afternoon adventures — just after 5 p.m. Despite temperatures hovering in the mid 30s and a steady breeze, there was no complaining as the younger kids bounced from bench to rail in Christmas-like anticipation of the show … tweens and teens bundled in blankets keeping warn with lighting fast texting … parents kept a watchful eye on their kids and the time … and seniors who simply enjoyed another year under their belt.

fireworkThe show didn’t disappoint with about a half hour of non-stop bursts, some volleys hugging the shore and other exploding high in the sky and illuminating the oceanscape — all to the oohs and aahs that traditionally accompany fireworks.

Originally, I had planned to make a long day of it, returning home after the fireworks. But as I was driving down, I decided to get off the interstate(s) and take in the Pennsylvania and New Jersey countryside. I think that impulse was spurred by my leg through Tioga County in New York. We had a light dusting of snow in the early morning hours and the Tioga landscape was breathtaking.

The “detour” obviously chewed up a little extra travel time so I opted to spend the night at the shore. That would give me a chance to make my boardwalk rendezvous with the Beachcam {I hope some of you caught me “live” — okay with about a minute delay — at 4:45 p.m.} and visit with Millie in neighboring Tom’s River after the show. Okay, after a date with a sausage and pepper sandwich at Spicy’s in the Coin Castle Arcade. The only problem was nonagenarian Millie had other plans for the night and wasn’t home when I got to her house 😦 .

So I decided to go back to the motel and just chill. I started watching Dick Clark’s New Year’s Rockin’ Eve, but the fluffy pillows and down comforter — off a stressful production week that resulted in an all-nighter Sunday and about a total of eight to 10 hours of sleep since Saturday — quickly did me in. I did wake up just in time to hear Miley Cyrus screech her way through Adore You and Wrecking Ball, all the time thinking how quickly she has lost her talent. I don’t know if she was lip-synching, but if she was she was doing a terrible job and if she wasn’t she should have. Just before the main event, the station went to a commercial. Then, 10-9-8-7-6-5-4-3-2-1, I was out, dozing off and missing the ball drop completely. I woke up to noise disguised as music, the clock reading 12:17. It was my cue to turn off the telly and enjoy the slumber … which I did until just before 8 a.m.

After a complimentary breakfast and check out, I made another impromptu visit to Seaside. I took a stroll on the beach {the water was relatively warm}, drove over to the bay where only posts jutting out of the water remain of the pier I walked on many, many times before. And I surveyed what was left of the Seaside pierPark boardwalk after a raging fire propelled by powerful winds destroyed it in September. The businesses were in the process of rebuilding after it was leveled by Hurricane Sandy not even a year earlier. The fire started at a Kohr Brothers Frozen Custard stand — one of my favorite haunts — and went on to ravage more than 80% of the Seaside Park boardwalk.

Before leaving, I decided to try Millie’s house again, ringing her doorbell about 10 a.m. She looked great and we journeyed through the years for the next two plus hours. In case, you missed it, Millie was my second Mom growing up. She is my best friend’s Mom and since I spent as much time at Bernie’s as I did my own house, Millie was stuck with me — and Carmen and Murray — at all hours of the day and night.

In the spirit of New Year’s, she remembered coming downstairs to find Murray, Carmen and I laughing and talking and being, well, boys, with Bernie around 3 a.m. New Year’s morning back in 1966. Murray, Carmen and I had gone into New York City for the ball drop. I don’t remember why Bernie didn’t go with us, but on our way back home, Murray had the bright idea at stopping at Bernie’s. And that’s exactly what we did. I remember Millie groggily coming down the stairs and asking us, “Don’t you boys have a home?” Of course, she said that a lot.

During our conversation, I nonchalantly told her I was considering retiring to Maine. She shifted into her sales mode and pointed out about a dozen reasons why I should consider retiring to Tom’s River instead — including being closer to her. She is such a sweetheart!

A little after noon, complete with a goodie bag {mostly healthy fruit, I might add} for the road, I headed back home. I was transformed back to my teen years and the marvel of Jersey driving. I know drivers are crazy everywhere, but only in New Jersey can you be going 80 mph in a 45 zone and be passed on both the left and the right like you were standing still … the use of directional signals confuses drivers … and it’s common to see driver’s weave from the left lane through the center lane to the right lane back to the center lane and back to the left lane just to get around someone going one mile per hour slower than them. Now I remembered how we could get from Exit 153 to Exit 82 in an hour or less {and those were the days when you had to stop about every 15 minutes to throw a quarter in the toll bucket}.

fallsSince this was a serendipity trip, instead of following MapQuest, I opted to hit Paterson for a quick diversion. I wished Mom and Dad a Happy New year at a cemetery stop, visited the Great Falls and stopped at Gelotti’s for it’s homemade peanut butter swirl ice cream cone.

From there, it was back to reality … but not before a 36 hour respite.

So, thanks Seaside Heights Business Improvement District for giving me an “excuse” to head down to the shore in winter.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: Happiness is a by-product of an effort to make someone else happy.

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First Night

If all goes as planned, I will be heading to the Jersey shore in the morning. Yeah. I know. It’s the end of December and the thermometer will barely be above the freezing mark.

But there is a reason. You see, Seaside Heights hosts an event called “First Night Ocean County.” I’ve never gone to the event … but for years I have wanted to go. Something always seemed to come up … usually the weather, not necessarily here or there, but somewhere along the 300 mile trip. I’ve been tracking the weather and it looks like clear sailing. So, it’s Jersey bound for this boy, God willing and the creek don’t rise!

It actually sounds like a good winter family fun activity. It includes an afternoon of family friendly entertainment on the Boardwalk capped by fireworks over the ocean at 5 p.m. The weather is expected to be clear, albeit a little frosty around 34 degrees at showtime,

The Seaside Heights Business Improvement District has a website promoting the borough, http://exit82.com/. You can click on the Beach Cam link to follow some of the fun, although it is fixed, so I’m not sure how much of the fireworks you’ll be able to see.

But you may see me. I plan on parking between Webster and Hamilton Avenues at the Boardwalk, site of the beach cam. I will be there at 4:45 p.m. and I promise to wave a Happy New Year to all. You should be able to find me. I’ll be wearing my blue and yellow Starter jacket and, of course, have a round, cherubial face with a full snow white beard. I also may have icicles dripping from my nose and could be the only person on the boardwalk. But I’ll be there! Join me from the comfort of your warm homes.

I’m planning on leaving early to mid morning and visiting with my growing up second mom, Millie, in Toms River during the early afternoon before heading to the Boardwalk for the show. Then I’ll grab something to eat and head back home.

I know. I’ve been told it before. I am crazy.

But, oddly, I need to be recharged and the ocean always seems to do the trick … spring, summer, fall and even winter. Besides, I really am in the mood for a real sausage and pepper sandwich!

Happy New Year!

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: The human spirit is stronger than anything that can happen to it.

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A Christmas Prayer

As a Christmas gift to myself, I vowed to take Christmas off. No writing. No work.

But I did want to share a Christmas message. What to do?

Well, I “borrowed” some words my wife wrote, which have become a staple for Christmas in the Reveille/Between the Lakes. I thought it was time to expand the readership and pass her words along to an entirely new audience. And I pre-posted the blog, scheduling its release Christmas Day.

Thanks, Karen. And thanks to all followers and readers for the friendships and comments. May you all have a Merry Christmas and a New Year filled with happiness, holiness and blessing.

And now, A Christmas Prayer from Karen…

For many of us, life seems to have shifted into the fast lane, and Christmas seems to come upon us earlier and earlier each year. With so much to do and little time to do it, we may find ourselves becoming grumpy, often mimicking familiar scenes from A Christmas Carol. With time at a premium, our thoughts seem to be consumed with what still has to be done or bought rather than focusing on the real reason we celebrate Christmas.

It’s not the presents found under the tree on Christmas morning, the giving or the taking … It’s not the trees or wreaths or the fancy decorations … It’s certainly not the commercialism or hustle and bustle that often puts us in a foul mood, the exact opposite of what the Lord’s birth was designed to offer.

Jesus was born into poverty. Imagine for a moment a stable birth, simply because no one had room for them.

Do we have room for Jesus today? Is He the focal point in our days? Or is He being told there is no room (time) in our busy schedules?

Ironically, that was Christ’s first gift to us – HUMILITY. No one can be great until they humble themselves.

The Lord’s precious gifts to us don’t stop there. Throughout His life, He demonstrated CHARITY, oft proclaimed the greatest of virtue.

What do we do?

Take and take some more. Dollars will come and go, inflation continues to bounce up and down, yet, there is always something we can give, but so often forget to do. Rich or poor, we can give love, understanding, compassion, a kind word or deed or a warm smile on a cold wintry day. Gifts don’t always have to be equated with the material things in life. Our gifts from the heart are equally important and can be used to help feed our own lives as well as the lives of others.

W e can’t forget FAITH and HOPE. Faith is the belief in things we can neither see nor understand. Hope keeps things in proper perspective. Together, they lead to TRUST.

This Christmas, let us ask for help in attaining these virtues. And as a New Year resolution – which we can start today – let’s attempt to practice them in our daily lives.

Christmas is the celebration of the birth of our Savior. Without “Christ” in Christmas we really have nothing to celebrate.

Merry Christmas to all of our readers. May the PEACE and JOY our Lord brought with Him so many years ago be with each and everyone of you.

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: We have a God, where NOTHING is impossible.

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